In china villages, there are more and more poor family, they don't have enough money to let their son get married. Because before getting married, the bridegroom's family have to give some money to the bride's family, the number is about sixty thousand RMB, this money don't includ the cost of new house and the furniture. And the bridegroom's family have to invite the relatives to have a lunch in restaurant, the total amount of money is about two hundred thousand RMB. In villages the older parents only can earn ten thousand RMB from the land per year, because they rarely have skills and good education, sometimes planting farm is the only chance. The result is that a marriage need the amount of money of twenty years income. So a typical phenomenon happened. If two families all haven't enough money and have a son and a daughter, so they always choose a changed way, it means changing their daughter. The girl just like a goods, they haven't anyright to choose their love and life. If a man can't find a partner, always the man is a disabled or illiterate. When a girl married to that man as a changed goods, their whole life will be ruined.

When we take a speech in western countries, the joke is necessary. It can attract the audience's attention, let them feel funny and enjoy the speech, I think when the audience have belly laugh, it means the joke you said is work. what can we do if the joke isn't good, do I have any better way to save the speech and let the speech looks good? In china we say some joke in some speeches, but don't like western countries. People always say that the western citizen are more humorous than chinese. Do you agree with that? Some people said that chinese have humor too, but the chinese humor are different with western's, what do you think that? I want to know some classic joke of English, could you guys tell me?

I have learned English for many years, when I was in high school, my English was very poor. Graduated from college and working, I knew I have to impove it, but I have tried many ways, these aren't good effective, can you guys share with me some successful methods you used in learn English, I will appreciate you guys! thank you!

I will have a baby in eight months, I hope my baby is a daughter, but I don't tell my baby that..... My wife and I were born in small country, when we know we have a baby, I have to let my wife to go back hometown, I feel sad for that. In the city, the live-expense is too high, I can't afford it only use my income. I believe there are more that situation happening every day in china. At that time I really want to look after her and stay with her. The disadvantage live in here is that she haven't friends at here, every day she spend almost time stay at home with computer and TV, if she live in hometown, our parents will chat with her and the air is more clear than city, it is better to her and our baby. Even that I still want to stay with her and our baby, but I can't do it now, I miss her so much! My un-born baby, I'm sorry for can't stay with you!

I'm in home now, but my wife have to work until 8:30, she is so tired everyday. I feel very sorry to her, I haven't the ability to let her have a better life. I met my wife on a blind date, when I saw her, I know that she was the right one. Now her is my partner and we will have a baby. Honey, I want to say I love you so much.