Six Secrets I will keep
2013-04-02
An entire month, I really felt confused and frustrate. Fortunately, being inspired by an article entile "Six Secrets of High-Energy People", I feel more better.
I change my look with a short haircut, a perm, new black coat, a pair of brown shoes and a black watch. It's the first secret.
Last weekend, I made a visit to my sister and their foreign trade company, watch a movie named " Beijing in Seattle" with my sister and her friends, the weekend end up with the movie's touching and funny story. it's the second secret.
I dialed the telephone number on the business card of my old friend and we talked with each other in nearly two hours. I started to use Tencent's WeChat to send voice messages to friends. It's the third secret.
My past is filled with regrets and failure that still cause pain. But from an emotional energy point of view, they are dead weights that keep me from moving forward. While they can't merely be throw away, I can only remind myself that whatever happened is in the past, and nothing can change that. Holding on to the memory only allows the damage to continue into the present. It's the forth secret.
I used to endlessly think a decision over and found that having it hanging over my head is a huge energy drain. Every time I can't decide, I burden myself with alternatives. I try to quit thinking that I have to make the right decision, instead, make a choice and don't look back. It's the fifth secret.
Smile more often. It's the sisth secret.
The above secrets may be briefly summed up as follows "Do something new", "Reclaim life's meaning", "Put yourself in the fun zone", "Bid farewell to guilt and regret", "Make up your mind" and "Give to get".
With many, many thanks for all your concern. You remind me of that if there is only one day in my life, isn't it stupid of me to worry about something again. "I will live this day as if it were my last and then I would not be unhappy again " it is my thoughts when I was in junior three. I'm ashamed of having forgoten it.
as a human ,we would encounter tons of setbacks in life,keeping optimistic is an attitude,just remember don't lose the mood of life ,even everything all lost.
When I grow up, I found it difficult to keep a smiple mind, especially after encountering many setbacks, I became sort of pessimistic.
keep a smiple mind,a good mood,Always remember that" there is nobody outside" .following your heart ,when you know what you want to be or what is your goal,you will find nothing is importent compare with yourself.maybe walk out of the blue need a period of time and it is also a chance of growing to maturity.
You are the most important person in your life, the one you can rely on, the one life you know you will live is the one you are living. Each life is valuable. Embrace it in a way that if you did look back you will know you spent your last day or hour wisely. Work hard, play hard and make time for what is important in your life.
"Seize today, tomorrow and yesterday are always equally far away.
What if I am Steve Jobs but died young or a victim of the plane crash tomorrow." Wrong behaviour, harmful emotions or false attitudes often result in me when I forget this thoughts.
From my perspective, to some extent,it reflects individual's sense of mature, follow our heart needs great courage, wisdom and foresight. One the other hand, it is more than a challenge ---it is often an adventure.
I agree learn from the past, remember the happy and inspiring moments and move on. Life is too short.
Our life is like a play.We only need to follow our heart that will take us to wherever we want to go.And smile often to life that is like a mirror.
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