The space of Yes-summer - Chinadaily Forum

2013-12-08

I leave here for a long time. So many things unhappy happened, I really very sad recently. Something is not as beautiful as I thought. I don't know what can be believed and who can be believed in. Maybe many people may meet it and deal with it with different way. I can't tell anyone, which proves my fail. This forum is the only place I can say something, I can't cry now because I had cried so much, I pretended to be smile everyday, cause my parents will be worry about me. <div><br></div><div>My husband is a engineer, his job decides our separation. he loved a beautiful lady who has been married before he after me. They hugged and kissed each other, but they can't be married. But no long time he meet me, then he after me enthusiastically. So as you thought he dates with two women. One month ago, someone added my QQ and told me that he checked in a hotel with that lady, I can't believe it . I thought he was cheating me, I told my husband. You see I am so naive! My husband was very nervous and told me that someone is very bad and jealous his happy life. But I found he is so nervous and found some chatting records which hurt my heart! They keep on relationship so long time! Though we had engaged , he still call her darling! Today he acknowledged that they meet each other last month, but just say bye bye, they just chat in hotel. Haha, so funny, will anyone believe it? Chatting in hotel? I don't know what to do! I feel so hurtful! He preformed so well, I believed he love me, but the truth laughs at me! He begs my forgiveness ,told me he only loves me! Can I believe him? What I can do? I have no smile, no tears, no feeling. </div>

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Where is my blog which I wrote several days ago?

2013-10-14

I wrote something several days ago,but I can't find it, what happened ? No draft left...

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It is the parents' responsibility to take care of children

2013-09-23

nowadays there are more and more parents confide their children to the care of the old man. The young have to work outside to earn money to support the family. It is really a good tradition for Chinese, cause both the young and the old have something to do and achieve their value. But it should not be the reason that the old people should take care of the children, they have the right to have their own life and refuse to look after the children. Why I mentioned this topic? Two of my good friends asked me who will take care of my baby? I told them that I will bring my baby to my husband's city and take care of him by myself before I go to work, It will be about 6 months to provide breast-feed for my baby. Both of the two friends had already had a baby, they don't believe me and told me how difficult to do it by myself, what they mentioned most is " you will know it then, you will be very tired, have a look!" with a special tone. I know it is difficult to take care of a baby by a fresh mother on her own, I know it will be very tired. So what? I know they maybe want to give me some advices, don't do it by myself. What I think is just that nobody should take care of the baby except his parents. No matter how difficult or how tired it will be, baby is his parents' responsibility, of course I don't mean that the two friends don't take care of their babies, I just think it should not be strange to do it only by their parents if they have the time. My husband's mother has taked care of three children by herself, including my husband and two brother's children. Wasn't she tired? Did she give up? Why can't I do it? The old help the young to take of the children is good if the old do it of their own accord, we should appreciate them and not take it for granted. Though I am childish sometimes, I believe that I will be a good mother.I am not that vulnerable who can not raise a baby, everyone will be strong enough to take care of a baby. To be a mother, she will be no longer a girl, she should take the responsibility and accept the role of a mother. Nobody can instead of a mother. I may be tired then or complain, but I will not give up, he is my baby, I love him! There will be much more pleasure than tiredness. It is really difficult for me to upload someting with an IPAD, I have to write on QQ Zone at first and then copy it and edit it with a computer.

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Better later than never-from a woman aged 27

2013-08-25

I thought my English is not as good as my classmates which resulted me lose confidence of English learning though my major is English in university. But now I am pregnant 4 years later since I graduated, I have so much time. I didn't know what to do and always be upset. My husband is a aggressive man, he encourages me to learn English again. Actually I used to be a study abroad consultant, I provide advices for my students who want to study in USA. I have to login different official websites of universities to get the update news which they need. I found that so many students' English are so poor, I have to translate the informations for them. And i helped one of my students to translated her resume and presentation, did application for her, she got the offer from UIB. Which wins my confidence, I am not that bad, I just not as good as I think I should be. Now there is so many free time allowes me to think of my future. I didn't know what kind of job i should do after i have a baby. Maybe a english teacher or a interpreter. But i have no certification of TEM8 and no teacher certification. Thinking of myself, i am only 27, if i spend about 3 years to promote my capacity it is not too late. 30 years old do not means old but mature, it is the most beautiful age for a woman. She will be charming, graceful and integellence if she always holds her aspiration and activities. I have found the meaning of life, not just eating, sleeping and fun. As a women, I should not only a common housewife or just work for existing, I can do many things as well as a man. Now I have two directions for my future: a English teacher or a interpreter related to mechanical. So what I should do now? No matter a teacher or a interpreter needs excellent English skill, English is the foundation of my job. Better late than never.Now I am studying English everyday, I recite the words every night, watch the CCTV-news, listen to the VOA news, read the China daily and register the China daily Blog, make friends in English. Every morning I wake up with English words which I recited the last night and the dulcet sound of the CCTV-News. Every night I will recite a page of words and sleep with dreams of English. Now my life is rich, I find a lot of fun in learning, every people will find their fun when they indulge in something. I enjoy the life I can outlet myself and express myself freely. I will try my best, everything worth doing is worth time and effort to do it well. Every new day is another chance to change your life. No matter wether I can achieve my goal, I am happy I have a try and enjoy the experience. I thanks my husband a lot who helps me to find out myself!

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