This morning, I understood suddenly a thing that it had been my heart for a long time. The sudden understanding made me feel lost. If I wasn’t anxious very much for that thing to resolve, maybe it would have another a result.

When things are slow, they will be round. When people are slow, they will be safe. Many things in the lives are important and worried, So we always want to resolve them early, the more anxious you are, the more bad you feel. You will focus on the spirit on the things and want to resolve them as quickly as possible. But in fact many things can’t be resolved as shopping. It needs you to be slow and look for the more way to resolve, to make the thing develop for a good reslut that you want. Maybe the procedure is a little long, it may make the people who often worry feel suffering. But the suffering is an exercise for us.

It needs the wisdom and patience to resolve an important and anxious, but we often lack the patience to make the result to be opposite. However we can’t know that it is made by ourselves. We think it should be so. We are also depressed for the result, even we lose the confidence to ourselves. Until someday, when you look back the thing, you will find that you have chosen a stupid way to resolve that thing. At last, the thing seemed to be resolved, but the result isn’t what you want.

So , anything develops to have its regularity, to resolve the thing also needs to according to its regularity. As the people don’t grow up at a moment, the flowers don’t open for a night. The live need the wisdom, it needs the patience the more.