5. Modern-day equality in marriage does not mean competition. It simply means partnership . Taking advantage of such equality to turn around and become the de-facto head of the home and oppress the man is tantamount to playing with fire. If you destroy your home, soon you will be the boss of an empty home.

6. A wise wife make her man feel so good that he assumes that he is the head. Once he gets that feeling, the woman gently wields her power and the head actually turns to wherever the neck wants without a protest.

7. A wife that does not pull herself away from friends' influence and advice or even from the control of her mother and father will have herself to be blame.

8. If every night you are tired , sleepy , sore , down with headache or fever, "not in the mood," you are a joker,a serious comedian!

9. If Television programs suddenly become more important to you than your husband, you need some counselling.

10. If you assume that as the woman, only you need to be pampered and fussed over while the man is a stone that has no emotions, you need to be pitied.

11. A woman that has the mind of a wife does not excite her husband. Wives are usually complacent and presumptuous . A wife must strive to have the mind of a girlfriend. A girlfriend is always nicer, sweeter, more loving and always thinking of how to wow her sweetheart ; a girlfriend does not try to win all arguments , does not call the man a "useless man" , is not careless about her looks or dressing, always smiles and laughs with the man, sends the man sweet messages and calls.