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A hard decision
2013-06-18
In the past few days, I was so busy and always worked over-time, what's more, the management of my company, a small -sized private Led lighting company, is in a mess, even without management, which make me tired working here. And the boss of this company has no tendency to develop foreign trade, all the orders come from the foreign trade company, so I can learn little here about foreign trade process. All these unpleasant things make me iritable these days, so I decide to leave this company and change a job. My husband works in a big company, where everything is formal and regular, when I first came to this city I sent my resume to his company, but I was refused beacuse the foreign trade department of that company didn't need new person. Last week I came to his company again, fortunately, their foreign trade department is open to new person, their leader interviewed me and was satisfied with my performance, but finally they refused me because of my age and the present state, they worried that I will become pregnant in the following one or two years after I enter their company, though I promise to them that I won't. But they are still worried. Because in their department, many female workers are in pregnancy, which is a headache to them. So they are sensitive to this. Maybe considering that my husband has been worked in the company for three years, the HR department arranged me to another department for interview, I passed the interview finally, but I am hesitating, because the job has little relevance with my major and with the foreign trade. My ideal job is related to foreign trade all the time after my graduation. If I accept this job, that will means that i have to give up my dreamed career. But working in my husband's company is stable and with less pressure, which attract me. I am thinking how to decide these days. Entering my husbang's compmay or find another job related to foreign trade. And actually, I am 26 year's old, I have a plan to have baby in two years, if I enter my husband's company, I can't have baby at least in first one year. So it is really a difficult desision to make. In addition, I am still in charge of much work in my company in present, I am wandering how to resign. I feel a little quilty if I leave so fast. I am struggling about these matters all the time these days. How to make the right decision ? How I wish someone can make the choice for me.

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shimy2005 2013-06-24 09:53

Yes, it will be a hard task for you.
Try it if you really want to.

fresh09 2013-06-24 07:29

In my opinion i think you should go for it and  if a baby comes its a blessing but not an excuse to slack so take it head on and whatever comes next take it head on also

serina87 2013-06-23 14:36

if i work in their company, I have to postpone my plan to have a baby. But actually, many friend suggest me to have a baby as young as possible. And the job in my husband's company is not the one I expected, in addition, I am also not satisfied with my present job. All these matters make me  so entangled these days.

Newtown 2013-06-23 13:43

First you swrite : "they worried that I will become pregnant in the following one or two years after I enter their company, though I promise to them that I won't".

Then you write : "And actually, I am 26 year's old, I have a plan to have baby in two years, if I enter my husband's company"

So which one is true ? That you do want to have a baby in two years time or that you can promise that you won't have a baby in two years time ? Why do you think any company should believe you when you say two different things ?

symondsez 2013-06-23 00:56

Well it is quite difficult for people to understand what they stand for  and to accept is even more difficult .I wish you luck in your journey of self improvement.
In my opinion it is always the salary which is most important factor.

Eddy123 2013-06-22 11:18

If you put self-improvement first,just find a job that you really want.
Be yourself.
Staying in that company,you may face more difficulties than you can imagine.

serina87 2013-06-21 16:16

In present, I will put self-improvement first, then the money in second. Beacuse I still have relatively limited work experience after two years' graduation from university. My first job is a translator, but just for one year, and then I shift to the foreign trade industry, but still less than one year and I learn little in my present company. After all, I want to be proficient in one industry.

symondsez 2013-06-21 12:12

what is your first consideration for a  Job ?.....
1. Comfort
2. Money
3. Self improvement
4. Satisfaction
.
?/

serina87 2013-06-21 10:56

thanks! but I think there is no hope to enter their department by this way.

serina87 2013-06-21 10:49

Yeah, but what if the job is comfortable, the salary is low, and the job benefit you little for your self-improvement. I think few people will accept it.