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|Perhaps the male Chinese view that "marrying up" is so important is part of the problem... Many American women pursue a partner, not someone to buy them things and provide economic materialism. Issues like gender-equality, trust, honesty, and so on matter to American women.
ngti2 date. 2014-5-23 21:44
I have lived in N. America for 30 years, and I have made the same observation that for Chinese-Cauca ...
For example, in China I know many men who have second families. They justify this by saying "hey, I bought each wife a house, I buy each wife clothes, they are taken care of, so it's all okay". American women do not have that feudal-lord mindset in the 21st century. It's a cultural difference -- don't be so xenophobic and think your cultural mindset is universal!
The obsession with economics and "status" are part of the problem that Chinese males face outside of China. Outside of China, people have different desires, tastes, and characteristics. You take your Sino-view, and that's fine, but it's irrelevant and even offensive to many non-Chinese women.