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How to teach your boy to be a man? [Copy link] 中文

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Post time 2013-12-10 23:17:17 |Display all floors
He has to make his own mistakes, and learn from them - the best parents are those that love their kids enough to allow them the freedom and space to make mistakes, and be there to "pick up the pieces", be they monetary, physical or psychological........

A good friend of mine said he never expected his son to live to his 25th birthday, so when he made it, there was great celebrations - his son had done all the stupid, dangerous and "dare-devil" things by then and was ready to settle down, study and become a valued member of society.

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Post time 2013-12-10 23:28:16 |Display all floors
It seems I have the right to read the post and no right to answer it. Sadness,because my kid is a girl.

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Post time 2013-12-10 23:52:19 |Display all floors
SDIvester Post time: 2013-12-10 06:28
I noticed that in the States, we are being to protective of our children. There are to many mommy's  ...

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Post time 2013-12-10 23:58:30 |Display all floors
This post was edited by vf84tcat at 2013-12-11 00:00
RealMadrid1 Post time: 2013-12-10 23:17
He has to make his own mistakes, and learn from them - the best parents are those that love their ki ...


The only real way to learn life's lessons is by making mistakes. Others will hate you for mistakes but if your parents love you they will realize mistake-making is a necessay part of learning and will not castigate you for it. Loving parents always know this and don't hate or call their children stupid for making them rather they calmly address the idea of consequences for actions. With love and support a child will eventually understand this relationship and will become a strong, confident adult

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