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Is it normal to have no real friends??   [Copy link] 中文

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Post time 2013-8-7 17:24:11 |Display all floors
yeah good advice all around Dara

forget about what you see on TV dramas or if you can, all that fake face book "friends"
I myself have only a couple of people I call real friends. When you get older you tend to sieve through everything in your life. Including the people in it.
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Post time 2013-8-7 19:55:31 |Display all floors
my "real friends"* are all spread out all over the world now and the only way I keep in touch with them is via "the computer" {:soso_e129:}
I mean sure, I know people from being in China, but no one I would say I am real close to now, which I have just resigned myself too {:soso_e143:}
after all, maybe after a certain age you don't really make new close friends {:soso_e101:}
sorry, if does not help, but no, you are defo not alone...




*=by real friends I mean people I have known in real life but am now separated from, its not a lot, but if there was one place with all of these couple of handfuls of people, then I think I could be truly happy again**
**=but instead I just continue to wander the globe, not fitting in anywhere, wondering if I will ever be free to just be me, ever again {:soso_e115:}

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Post time 2013-8-8 10:20:45 |Display all floors
gulfalco Post time: 2013-8-7 19:55
my "real friends"* are all spread out all over the world now and the only way I keep in touch with t ...

your life style is cool, not tied up to one place.

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Post time 2013-8-8 10:22:09 |Display all floors
Thank you all for your kind replies.
I guess I shouldn't worry about it. because I can't do anyhing about it either.

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Post time 2013-8-8 13:15:46 |Display all floors
Dara Post time: 2013-8-8 10:22
Thank you all for your kind replies.
I guess I shouldn't worry about it. because I can't do anyhing ...

Dara,

Real friends stick with you when times become really tough.  Of all of my friends globally there are perhaps a couple of dozen that I'd call "close friends" and most of those are Chinese. They have stuck with me through some very dark times, for instance while I was in hospital this year the first call I received was from a friend in Foshan as she was worried about me and knew something was wrong.

To make real friends you have to communicate and open your heart to them, it's a process of both trust and love. I'm happy to be a friend of yours if you wish.
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Post time 2013-8-8 13:17:34 |Display all floors
raton Post time: 2013-8-7 00:03
Traitor.. and I thought we are the best of friends, same race… just me been superior

The same race perhaps, but I prefer Chinese lady mice to old Germanic rats.
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