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Being single is not natural

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I get similar treatment where I am in Africa. My girlfriend is back in Canada and when people ask me if I have a girlfriend, I tell them this. The next question is always, "Do you not have a local girlfriend?" They seem completely confused as to why I would not have a second girlfriend here. I tell them I want to be faithful and it just amuses them. I guess they think that if a man does not have a girlfriend where he travels, he is somehow not a real man?

It makes me very uncomfortable. I'm glad I am going home next week.

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lovetuscany Post time: 2012-11-30 15:59
Yes, I did, I had such experience, which just happened to me last weekends.

Well, the next time the salesgirl or someone asked the same question again, simply answer "I am single and do not have a boyfriend.  That's why I am shopping alone."


By the way, don't be a "shopoholic". {:soso_e101:}{:soso_e101:}


Hehe, I love to shop too, but I am more a purposeful shopper. {:soso_e106:}


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This post was edited by whampoa at 2012-12-1 21:51
Col Post time: 2012-12-1 13:54
I get similar treatment where I am in Africa. My girlfriend is back in Canada and when people ask me ...

Great, please stay away from Chinese girls.

Those must be pimps who ask you to look for local girlfriend.  {:soso_e113:}{:soso_e113:}


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WhiteBear Post time: 2012-12-1 08:10
from my experience in China:

A lot people ask: why didn't You find "Chinese girlfriend"? and then c ...

Same advice as my advice to Col.


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Post time 2012-12-1 23:42:35 |Display all floors
yes,it appears anywhere anytime, if one always is single, he/she will be questioned like this: why are you single? why not find a company while eating or shopping?    the questioner thinks one who has no company is abnormal or there is something wrong with his/ her mind, it sounds horrible, but it is the truth, we will be questioned more or less, no matter what we explain he will advise us to find a company,especially when we are more than 27 years old
it is only we know why we are keeping single, we neednt to explain to anyone

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