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Post time 2012-11-27 03:42:07 |Display all floors
SMITHI Post time: 2012-11-27 03:22
No?

i think for you it is contest, you seem to be obsessed with gays, lesbians, and destruction o ...

I think everyone should leave abusive spouses male or female.

What kind of family values is in beatings?

I left so my kids would not see this as normal behavior in a family.
  
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Post time 2012-11-27 03:45:29 |Display all floors
expatter Post time: 2012-11-27 03:32
And there is a reason for that  .........

And most men on this board will know why and dare not s ...

A reason for the violence?

Its not justified expatter.  If things are so bad in your relationship that you see violence as a viable option than you have no relationship.  Run away as fast as you can!  Its not worth it.
  
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Post time 2012-11-27 03:59:25 |Display all floors
JFenix Post time: 2012-11-27 03:45
A reason for the violence?

Its not justified expatter.  If things are so bad in your relationship ...

Yes  .......... !

Just runaway  .........   

Leave the house and everything you worked for to the one who is abusing you  .........

Men are just natural cowards  .......

Right  .......  ?

They sh1t money and have choices in abundance and are secure in who they are  .......

And the law is on their side  ..........

Always  ..........  !   


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Post time 2012-11-27 04:18:00 |Display all floors
expatter Post time: 2012-11-27 03:59
Yes  .......... !

Just runaway  .........   

What is the alternative?

There is no relationship if there is abuse.  

I left everything.  I moved my kids out with one truck that had their beds and clothes in it and that's about it.

I didn't have a couch to sit on or plates to eat off of when I left.

Sometimes your life and your children's lives are more important than material goods.  Who the hell cares about stuff when your life is threatened?

I heard about a guy once that was getting seriously abused by his wife.  She would stab him, break bottles over his head and he kept going back to her and never fought back.

That's not living.  Its not worth it.

  
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Post time 2012-11-27 04:21:35 |Display all floors
The number one reason why there is domestic violence in america.........parents!

Its learned behavior.  Whether from an abusive father or mother.  

When violence is 'normal' in the family those kids grow up and have high chances of either entering in an abusive relationship or becoming abusers themselves.

And alcohol of course keeps it all going.....
  
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Post time 2012-11-27 04:26:49 |Display all floors
JFenix Post time: 2012-11-27 04:18
What is the alternative?

There is no relationship if there is abuse.  

OK .....

A rented house  ......

In the UK many buy and are locked in financially to that property  ..........

A kind of 'modern day' dream and also a type of slavery  ......

Maybe more on that later  ...........   


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Post time 2012-11-27 04:27:41 |Display all floors
Nothing!  Your post was neat, It was the only one i could reply to without reproducing pictures and/or lots of text.

Thanks for letting me use it. {:soso_e100:}

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