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Post time 2012-10-25 03:40:54 |Display all floors
Sometimes we have to work with people we do not like. It is not our fault and not their fault - it just happens.

Socially, we do not associate with people we do not like - we have a choice. But it is not so easy at work when you have to associate with someone you do not like.

What do you do?

You could try to like them. You could ignore them. You could talk to them about it. You could get a new job.

What would you do?

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Post time 2012-10-25 04:11:54 |Display all floors
if I do not like a person then there is something wrong with me.It is my own problem.I try to find pout the positive things of that person and make myself change feelings towards that person.Sometimes it takes time but I manage sooner or later so I can  feel happy with ,my work.If wer change our behaviour to people they will also behave better to us.So let's make ourself better .This is the only solution to survive in this life.
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Post time 2012-10-25 09:53:30 |Display all floors
First I would try to let this person do my work also
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Post time 2012-10-25 09:58:42 |Display all floors
i think it depends a lot on the "position" of that person, does he/she hold a lower or higher or equal position etc.
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Post time 2012-10-25 10:04:44 |Display all floors
xilaren Post time: 2012-10-25 04:11
if I do not like a person then there is something wrong with me.It is my own problem.I try to find p ...

I envy you for your kind way of thinking, your patience and understanding and your desire to get along with the people you don't like to work with.

But do you really only want to survive all that valuable life God gave to you alone.

Go to work, kick ass and enjoy your life every day! The time is running.
Twentyfive percent out of nothing is still nothing!

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Post time 2012-10-25 10:05:28 |Display all floors
This post was edited by china.pm at 2012-10-25 10:07

I had that experiences like that before.
During that time, I always asked myself: is it my problem? what should I do? quit the job? that will be useless, I must be met some new colleagues I do not like, then I tried to accept their working habits, tried to listen their opinions patiently, tried to be in their group. Then it's do not as bad as I thought.

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Post time 2012-10-25 10:06:38 |Display all floors
lionstar Post time: 2012-10-25 09:58
i think it depends a lot on the "position" of that person, does he/she hold a lower or higher or equ ...

Many ways to skin a cat!
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