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Post time 2012-8-21 21:58:01 |Display all floors
I'm meeting another girl this weekend.

In the past few months, I've been paying for first dates. They all ended up nothing.

Am I supposed to pay everytime for the blind dates?
It's not fair, is it?
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Post time 2012-8-22 05:39:34 |Display all floors
you have to if you want to be called a gentleman
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Post time 2012-8-22 08:16:18 |Display all floors
I don't imagine if girl would pay on the first date.

But I can imagine, that if the "date" is just a meeting of two people who wants to know each other, then everybody can pay for oneself.

Btw. I ussually payd on first date, just because it makes me feel good... And it is in my "culture" standards... well... standard ;) And I think it is really OK.
While paying, I usually can select the place, and activities.

If first date is last (with that person)... so what? :)
It's rare, that two people will decide for relationship on first date(s).

Costs? Sure, but if You don't choose place that is over Your real "reach" - costs should be quite cceptable.

If You select places that are expensive to impress Your (future???) partner... well, it is up to You.

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Post time 2012-8-22 08:43:33 |Display all floors
Well, so it's too convenient to be a girl, isn't it?
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Post time 2012-8-22 08:46:21 |Display all floors
This post was edited by DSseeing at 2012-8-22 08:48
WhiteBear Post time: 2012-8-22 08:16
I don't imagine if girl would pay on the first date.

But I can imagine, that if the "date" is just  ...

I partially agree./

I'm having the same problem with OP.

Sometimes girls were not worth flatteriing .
I know that we won't meet again.
But my paying habbit drove me to reach into my pocket then I regreted so much
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Post time 2012-8-22 09:23:57 |Display all floors
DSseeing Post time: 2012-8-22 08:43
Well, so it's too convenient to be a girl, isn't it?

would You, if You could? ;)

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Post time 2012-8-22 09:44:10 |Display all floors
I would if I could
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