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I believe relationships are meant to last.|
A relationship is a matter of the heart and as such, it should never be shortchanged by ulterior motives such as a green card.
Looks can be important but it is certainly not the most important in a woman. If you compare the two, the heart always wins hands down, especially if you are <b>past thirty.</b>
No self-respecting Chinese man would go out and marry a shrew in a hurry just because she had had an expensive boobs job the week before, a nose job a week before that, and still another liposuction job a month before that one.
A woman should not be overly influenced by <b>Hollywood movies</b> and carry this <b>stereotypical image of 'Western men'</b> in her head.
Whether they are cowboys or city-slickers they can be just duds and not studs in the real battlefield. That's why V-drug enjoys much higher sales volumes on a per capita basis in the Western world than in China.
Likewise, you would be surprised to learn that there are far fewer 'smoking guns' in America than in China. How can you have smoke when there is no fire? That's why so many couples are unable to bear children and end up having to adopt children from East Asia.
To have real firepower you need at least 600,000 little swimmers per cubic milliliter of porridge and men always wrongfully blame their wives for their inability to bear them a little emperor. That's one reason some Chinese women opt for laowais because she faces no traditional pressure to produce smoke where there is no fire.
Another important factor is height. Chinese men are mistakenly but widely perceived to be shorter and that's because most Chinese men who had gone overseas in the past had hailed from the subtropical areas of Guangdong and Fujian. Southerners are shorter in stature than Northerners. Westerners had never seen the likes of Yao Ming although he is not all that uncommon amongst Northern Chinese.
This rule does not apply to Europeans. You may be surprised to learn that Scots in Glasgow and Edinburgh are shorter than Italian men on the average. I had been to those cities and I can attest to that.
Western men are not all tall and aggressive and Chinese men are not all short and catatonic with no interest in girls like those depicted in Hollywood movies.
Most of the men further north are only a notch or two shorter than Yao Ming and most women still have to turn their faces upwards in order to kiss them.
How do you know a race of people is becoming <b>extinct</b>?
That's when <b>ALL their women</b> have to turn their faces downwards in order to kiss their men.
In this regard, Chinese men are always very polite and they insist Western men go to that evolutionary stage first.
Still another factor is body weight. As an expert on weight problems I can tell you this:
Most Western men past thirty-five are obese and the women in even worse physical shape than the men. They peak in their teens and go down fast on the road of no return.
At thirty they start talking about the <b>importance of character and inner beauty</b> -- much earlier than Chinese women do.
A fourth factor is self-confidence.
Here even though the <b>majority</b> of Chinese men are better looking with finer facial features and slim physique, they still lack self-confidence.
Again, that's because of the malfeasance of Hollywood Jews portraying Chinese men as emotional eunuchs who love kungfu fights more than they love their women.
This is totally absurd. The glamorization and commercialization of explicit sexuality about which Chinese males are condtioned to feel ill at ease account for this anomaly.
A Chinese man who expresses an interest in overt sexuality is generally regarded as a hood or <b>wulai</b>. To be a perfect gentleman he has to be like that legendary 'Liu Xia Wei," who remained catatonic in the presence of naked Marilyn Monroes or Zhao Feiyans.
That's why they usually don't talk about it and just do it. Strangely, the women who call them hoods and wulais when the lights are on are the same ones who hang their legs over their shoulders when the lights are out.
Oh yes -- Chinese women have this secret fear that their men prefer big husky high-nosed Western women who always swing two pendulous bombs in front of them but who never volunteer to go on suicide missions.
We don't really -- at least not the ones who have had real life combat encounters with them instead of just having seen them in surface anatomy lessons on polaroid films or DVDs doing their thing.
Chinese women are <b>more beautiful by and large</b> mainly because of their slim physique and less angular facial physiognomy. It is also true that their wrinkle-free youthfulness can last longer into their late forties.
But many Chinese women lack this self-confidence just like their men do. They think their eyes and boobs need to be supersized like McDonald French Fries, and that's why plastic surgeons are so endearing to these ladies queued up outside their doors -- in the market economy every boob and eyelid is a redefinable commodity that goes up or down in value just like Dows or Standard & Poor indices in the stock market.
That's one major reason why the old adage about beauty being skin deep rings truer than ever -- unless of course if you over-do it like Michael Jackson did and end up like a bleached Hunchback of Notre Dame.
To recap the situation on Ground Zero:
As the nation's economy advances and her cosmetics industry takes off, the worth of Chinese women will rise in consonance with the tides of prosperity, especially since there are millions more men than women in China.
The innate beauty of Chinese women cannot be overemphasized. There are far more Diao C'ans than Mei C'ao-fengs, and Xisis more than Dongsis. I have seen the women of the world and I can tell you this in no uncertain terms.
Those who disagree with me on this fact please raise their paws.
Frankly speaking, the 'Western' girls that I had been with all think that Chinese men are the better three-legged specimens of Homo sapiens around.
To be sure, one can only make a valid determination in a <b>real battlefield</b> measuring seven feet by five feet.
Want to know what <b>feeding frenzy</b> means?
That's NOT sharks swimming around a bloody chunk of horse meat and gnawing at it.
I just checked into the <b>wchao37 dictionary</b> a moment ago:
It's what a Chinese man like him sees while standing tall and looking down on the <b>swiveling heads</b> of moaning, wriggling brunettes, redheads and blondes.
If you guys and gals want me to I will take out the old grinder from my garage and use it on <b>Western Wudalangs</b> like Seneca whose inflated ego desperately cries out for downsizing..
P.S. Gong Li is just so so according to Chinese men's tastes. Many of the women I have known look better than she does. However, she does have a nice demeanor and I do appreciate the fact that she has not left her husband even though the tobacco company for which the guy had worked had disowned him.
I have heard that Ms. Gong even peels shrimp for her husband when they go to restaurants.
Now that is the real stuff if you truly want to know what <b>character </b>and <b>inner beauty</b> mean.