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Is renting a girlfirend a good idea?   [Copy link] 中文

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Post time 2012-1-18 18:49:07 |Display all floors
messi30 Post time: 2012-1-18 16:14
In reality, the magic of the Spring Festival is to enjoy the festivities the whole family united w ...

And how does the boy or girl avoid being pointed and falling in nonsense gossip without a companion at the gathering?

(a) by telling the family members that again this year no companion sent by Heaven?

(b) by telling the family members that again too busy to find one?

(c) by telling the family members that this topic was already discussed in CD and officially the answer is for everyone not to talk about renting a companion because it is fake, even if the fake can turn out to be real because it is not everyday that when one wants a companion, one will definite get the one of one's life?

(a), (b), and (c) are what make reality.

Who knows - the family members may turn out to like the rented companion who in turn may like them enough to return the rent paid and say to the person who rented her.him:

"do you want me for life?"

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Post time 2012-1-18 22:15:35 |Display all floors
markwu Post time: 2012-1-18 18:49
And how does the boy or girl avoid being pointed and falling in nonsense gossip without a companio ...

A simple question to your first paragraph and your a), b) and c) points

Why the boy or girl should give explanations to the parents and relatives about his/her personal life?

Pointing and making gossips to the ones who still don’t find the suitable love partner is really insane.

Everybody have their own problems, success, experiences, happiness, sadness, etc.and can be shared with the family and relatives but in love relationship NOBODY should interfere in the children’s decisions.

Again, In reality, the magic of the Spring Festival is (and should be) to enjoy the festivities with the whole family united without any condition or fears (or malicious comments)

Supporting those rental people business is cheating, lack of moral values and lack of respect, that’s also a reality.
Denial, according the psychoanalysts, is one of the most primary mechanisms of defense. It consists in the attitude of denying or minimizing obvious facts of reality with which the individual can´t  cope or whose irresponsibility is unable to meet.

And I agree.

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Post time 2012-1-18 22:31:24 |Display all floors
  1. Why the boy or girl should give explanations to the parents and relatives about his/her personal life?
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The boy or girl will one day also be a parent or relative.

A parent or relative to another boy or girl.

And if parent, the part-creator of the boy or girl.

The same concern a parent has for the baby who later becomes a boy or girl will be the concern shown in innocently asking about the personal life of the son or daughter.

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Post time 2012-1-19 00:59:33 |Display all floors
RealMadrid1 Post time: 2012-1-9 21:08
Why do Chinese parents (in general) appear to think that they "own" their children, even as mature a ...

But of course the children get their revenge when they can control their own children's lives to their own benefit.

Remember that there is no old age pension for the majority of Chinese people so they have no one to rely on but their own children. If their children are in a bad situation then what will happen to the parents when they are old? Their wages are so low yet the cost of living keeps rising so fast?

Their only hope is that their ONLY child will find a high paying job with a spouse from a rich family to help support not only themselves but also the spouse's family.
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Post time 2012-1-19 13:52:39 |Display all floors
messi30 Post time: 2012-1-18 22:15
A simple question to your first paragraph and your a), b) and c) points

Why the boy or girl shoul ...

"Why the boy or girl should give explanations to the parents and relatives about his/her personal life?"

I think that is about the culture differences, many parents and relatives in China would all like to know everythings from the children, including who is she/he dating? whose his/her frineds in life? how much you earn in your work? etc. etc...

I just let you know that.
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Post time 2012-1-19 14:00:27 |Display all floors
markwu Post time: 2012-1-18 22:31
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The boy or girl will one day also be a parent or relative.

so, what do you think the children would play the same game with future parents (the one who rent a girlfriend home?)

that was a circle of cheating...

I do laugh about the one who rent a gf .




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Post time 2012-1-19 14:18:44 |Display all floors
Chinese people are extra nosy and believe they have a right to know everything about everyone.
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