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Post time 2011-11-30 13:37:22 |Display all floors
greatlady Post time: 2011-11-30 13:15
I can't say you are not right.
In recent 10 yrs that China has a huge change in itself,so does it' ...

partly it's your fault , your generation , mostly are parents now ,you wouldn't merry your daughter to someone that does not have a house , car ,good job ,ect .   丈母娘  wake up
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Post time 2011-11-30 14:09:16 |Display all floors
Mainly because Chinese law, social warefare, social opinions, public wisdoms, much bias, and gossiping neighbours toward chinese women in China, the situation is much worse than in West toward their women.
Chinese young women in one hand receiving higher education and became more aware of their rights than their mothers, on other hand cannot fight against all aboved mentioned issues, so they feel less security compared with western young women, and that makes them, pushy to grasp anything from individual at hand that can ensure them security, which should have been offered from society.
A single mom is not allowed in China cause her child is unable to register as a "citizen" and without hu kou, women having child without marriage is not allowed in china and will suffer lots of gossip and discrimination, and she mgiht get spit on her morality even.
And how common is single mom and how are they treated in west society?

And a girl who does not want get married cause she want work for career, will suffer a massive attack from her family, from surroundings, from society and media....they blame her, slander her and infame her...so what choices she had left? And how are single women treated in west society?

If a women pursuits career and does not want family, she's suffering the risk of being a target of all men and also the media, don't you see every successful career women when receiving interivews, they have to emphasize on importance of family and how they value their family, in case of being shot by spitballs. ;)

A housewife, is considered as parasite, she's not only being discriminated by men, also by her own peers, her work is not respected, but taken for granted.
And how are housewives treated in west?

During marriage if a married women betrayed by her husband, it's not specific in law that she could be compensated for her effort and contributtion to family, she could be kicked out of home easily, even when it's her husband who had affair or even lose in a law suit, she gets nothing and no one protects her. Therefore a women could protect herself or not, it totally relys on men's conscience and the chance of meeting him.

Thinking of these above, who turns women desperate and realistic in China? must be the law makers , the country--men's paradise, no rich men...

who grasp benefits tightly in their fists, and these should have belong to the women..

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Post time 2011-11-30 16:07:47 |Display all floors
superkylin Post time: 2011-11-30 14:09
Mainly because Chinese law, social warefare, social opinions, public wisdoms, much bias, and gossipi ...

Prabobly you are right.

In mainland China's national congress, there is no a worker's representative, no a farmer's representative, no a migrant worker's representative, .....

All of the present law makers are the party members and government officials at all levels, and entrepreneur, and social celebrities, and movie stars, and anthelete stars, and oversea Chinese (including those people having American green card), etc.
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Post time 2011-11-30 16:12:12 |Display all floors
superkylin Post time: 2011-11-30 14:09
Mainly because Chinese law, social warefare, social opinions, public wisdoms, much bias, and gossipi ...

I agree with this statement.

Lot of young women would like to be able to do things differently but they need to behave and hold back to save their parents' faces. Hopefully the situation will improve in the next 25 years.

China hasn't have had its sexual revolution yet, it will happen.
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Post time 2011-11-30 17:32:08 |Display all floors
Teardropper Post time: 2011-11-30 13:37
partly it's your fault , your generation , mostly are parents now ,you wouldn't merry your daughte ...

esp My would-be 丈母娘, wake up!
Life is what you make of it

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Post time 2011-11-30 17:34:02 |Display all floors
superkylin Post time: 2011-11-30 14:09
Mainly because Chinese law, social warefare, social opinions, public wisdoms, much bias, and gossipi ...

I kind of agree. It's quite true in China
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Post time 2011-12-1 13:02:11 |Display all floors
This post was edited by superkylin at 2011-12-1 13:03
468259058 Post time: 2011-11-30 16:07
Prabobly you are right.

In mainland China's national congress, there is no a worker's representat ...

True, there's no "real" representatives, who can speak for and fight for rights of the weak(admit they are weak, without law protection), national congress is filled with those dead wood, nothing in brains and had to submit certain "suggestions" which only make situation worse and make themselves sound stupid. Simply because they don't care.
They can even stop the traffic at rush hour so their vehicle gets through all the way to people's parliament smoonthly, to attend a national meeting for the people, ironic
so, don't blame individuals, instead try to think improve the regulation, if possible in the remaining years of my life

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