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Post time 2009-5-10 15:20:07 |Display all floors
Originally posted by Vickii at 2009-5-10 15:07



who knows,however seemingly we didn't fall for each other by now,just have strong privity.

if there is no love then it means fun.
Perhaps because you have no children this is a reason to enjoy having that fun.

There are worse situations however.To be happy in your life ,to have an active social life and to abandon everything in order to chat with somebody you deeply love.
Then one day finds out that you were nothing for him
Think about it.How terrible it is for somebody to be in such a position.
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Post time 2009-5-10 15:21:25 |Display all floors
Originally posted by gangsta at 2009-5-10 15:19


Find a real boyfriend, get married, have children, sort your life out.
Cyber relationship will never work out.


you are wiser than me.I wish I had known that earlier.
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Post time 2009-5-10 15:38:42 |Display all floors
Originally posted by xilaren at 2009-5-10 15:20

if there is no love then it means fun.
Perhaps because you have no children this is a reason to enjoy having that fun.

There are worse situations however.To be happy in your life ,to have an  ...



so you mean i should stop chatting with him any more? or reduce the frequency

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Post time 2009-5-10 15:55:01 |Display all floors
Originally posted by Vickii at 2009-5-10 15:38



so you mean i should stop chatting with him any more? or reduce the frequency


I do not mean anything.It does not only depend  on you if you want to contuniue or not.
What about him?does he want to contact you?
Does he love you?Does he encourage you?do youknow that he is happy with you?
If he is negative to you ,if he gives you hints that he cares only for his friends and relatives who are near him and you are nothing for him then you are polite you have to respect his desire.
in addition does he also respond to you in a warm way?

You can test his feelings very easily.If you write to him and he does not answer to you this means that emotionally he is not available.
The decision is yours.Not mine.
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Post time 2009-5-10 16:11:24 |Display all floors
Originally posted by xilaren at 2009-5-10 15:55


I do not mean anything.It does not only depend  on you if you want to contuniue or not.
What about him?does he want to contact you?
Does he love you?Does he encourage you?do youknow that he i ...



thanks anyway :)

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Post time 2009-5-10 16:16:51 |Display all floors
Originally posted by Vickii at 2009-5-10 16:11



thanks anyway :)

you are welcome.I have a similar experience so I knowwhat I am saying haha.Trust me
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Post time 2009-5-10 22:03:36 |Display all floors
Originally posted by Vickii at 2009-5-10 15:06



No ,our principle is never meet any cyber friends, thereby we both enjoy our family life but also wanna keep a fine friendship on line. things haven't gone that bad,i mean ,just a little afra ...


Your principle is never meet in real life

Right?

Are you afraid that you might break your principle?

If not

What's wrong with enjoying your good feeling on the net?



Are you afraid that your "pure" relationship might get "polluted"?

Do you consider a relationship is "polluted" when it turns sexual?

Are we not sexual beings?

Do we have sexual feelings?

Is it a sin to feel sexual?

What are your thoughts on those issues?         :)

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