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Originally posted by tamson at 6-5-2009 13:49
but why the quarel fequency become higher and higher than ever.
compared with other lovers living in my school life, their frequent quarel seems like abnormal!
why other lovers can live much more ...
frequency becoming higher is because of nowaday's big pressure and stress, especially during the World economic crisis.
and it appears to be more normal these days, heck we're living in 2009 already.... fights/quarrels, are just common things.
Lovers living peacefully together for LIFE? That is just a fairtyale. Such "perfectness" doesn't exist. There are no perfect people, also no perfect couples, no matter HOW you see it. They just don't exist.
Do not think that less quarrel means more chance last for life. Many couples are going very well, but after a year or 2, 3 they suddenly broke up because of a stupid fight or reason, while they NEVER FIGHT before!!
Yeah thats the key!: they never fight that hard before and now think "Oh we're not suitable, let's break up!" -.-. You understand where Im going now? Life needs experience, so does Love and relationships. The more fights you have had with your love, the more you know HOW to handle it, because you both will be experienced by then. That's why I say as long one or both will make first steps to communicate again after a fight, that relationship will only become stronger and better, fights will be more easily handled next time or even avoid. That's the key to a long lasting love and NOT "finding" the one , finding someone or that kind of bullsh*t..... Love is a learning progress for life, NOT a "seek, hide and FOUND YOU"-little game.
[ Last edited by auchengyu at 2009-5-7 10:45 AM ]