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Originally posted by blkazngirl at 23-5-2006 03:32
I have to agree with Auchengyu. It doesn't matter if you are married or living together. If you are meant to be together it will work.
In America, most people live together. I don't r ...
well hidenseek , you experienced broken home, broken up of several times.
that cause you to not believe marriage and love etc...
SO especially YOU should know that marriage doesn stands for future!!
YOU should know that a wrong marriage = a painful divorce!
My meaning of LIVING TOGETHER is NOT kids, marriage!!
It is A TEST before marriage and before having kids!!
this ALL to PREVENT divorces which YOU experienced!!
regarding Hyper. there is not really men do not LOSE and girl LOSE.
in this world, its already EQUAL. if women lose something, we lose also.
nowadays, virgins are very rare. that means sex is a normal thing already.
do you think a women will like a man which had 5 ladies in bed before? they WILL also think: ow what a player or pervert... its the same for women AND men.
as you said before: REAL love is to accept all. also the past! no matter your gf or bf had 2, 3 partners before, real love won't care. some men CARE, SO DO women.
Women can lose their 'virginity' , so do men.
women can be cheap, also men. if you think when women are cheap when they had sex with some men, is this not MASCULANISM or discrimination?
Holland is not japan (a MAN-country..)
you as Dutch Chinese should totally understand western concepts, that living together and sex before marriage is not 'as BAD' as you think, and has its very good things.
at the end what I said LIVING together is not just SEX, that's a different topic which was made before.
living together is, different than having dates etc. its a TEST whether 2 characters fits, whether both can LIVE together without fights, misunderstandings , = without big chance for divorce!!
[ Last edited by auchengyu at 2006-5-24 11:38 AM ]