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You said that she looked very stupid. Did you tell her that? If she did not change, since high school, then she would be stupid. Not only that, she would have the brain of a vegetable!|
Also, you said that no other girl will spend time with you. You would learn much by looking within yourself with a very critical eye to see why that is. There is a reason for that. The girl you want--the one you said looks stupid--is not so stupid that she has learned to see reasons for not really wanting you.
Her virtue, it appears, is that she is kind and does things with you out of pity for you--not for loving feelings. You should remain just her friend and wish her luck at finding the truly loving guy she deserves!
It sounds like you are more lonely and desperate than in love with her.
When I read posts that concern love, I always look at it from both person's side. Looking at your attitude towards her, saying that she looked stupid, yet she had changed, you really are not a good guy for her.
She deserves a guy who realizes that girls change and who enjoys her change. Change is all a part of life. If you don't want her to change, then you don't see her as a real person, but as a toy that is there to keep you happy.
I think you have much to learn about love and about girls before you think of a permanent relationship. You need to learn about how to give a girl happiness, rather than be so selfish for your own happiness and pleasure.
True love is when both the guy and the girls think of the other's happiness first. If there is not that balance, then the relationship will be a sorrowful prison for both.