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You should get to know a friend gradually !
No friends were made the moment you're born . A great large part of people around are strangers for you. Then you need some friends to console you, help you , share joy and sorrow with you ,etc. Getting lots of friends , you wouldn't feel lonely or depressed .Friends are precious treasure .|
For the first , making friends needs patience. As you have mentioned , you may not get his/her name ,occupation, interests . But It's not a matter, you can learn those aspects afterwards. You see, Some pople are not willing to tell strangers their private things and It's also bold for you to do that . So you'd better ask him/her some petty things to know more details of him/her the first time you're together. Gradually , by that way , he/she may know of you . Then you two could disern whether you're share common with each other . Secondly , common interests are indispensable . Without idetical characteristics , two people couldn't be friends . Besides ,mutual trust , loyalty are key ingredients for keeping friends . Just be generous to give , the more you give , the more friendship you save .Just as one proverb goes :If you want to win respect from others ,you should respect others first.Sometimes , personally,making friends depends on your feelings . I got several friends like that .All in all , everyone has his principles of making friends , I deem .One likes to make friend he/she likes,so you can't force someone to be your friend.
Just be sincere and outgoing , you will not be worried for having no friends .
Maybe the words above are platitudes, but It's the general norms of making friends !