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dating a chinese man
While i was in Canada i dated a chinese man as charles said. ( It's strange spend a year in china, never dated a chinese man, go to canada and then i find one, mostly cause to him i wasn't a trophy, to him i was this beautiful person inside ( and outside lol)|
it was the most awesome experience ever, yeah i fell hard for someone i can't have because i came back to China and he was getting over an ex girlfriend ( bad timing). But i wouldn't exchange the time i had with him for anything. I was dating a Banana ( yellow on the outside , whit on ehte inside), I was more chinese then he is. It was a perfect mix of chinese culture and my culture and man oh man was he hot! It was nice to have someone that understood both sides of it so well, probably why we got along so well.
People did look at us though. When we were in very chinese areas i got the same looks as i get here in China. But when the odd occaission we went outside of chinatown then no more funny looks. We had fun though, in cantonese places he would speak and when we went to places where it was manderin i would speak ( which confused the heck outta them meaning the people in the store). We would go shopping together and he would make fun of white people and i would make fun of some chinese things.. just silly things , like he would bet me how many white people were in a chinese store that sold bootleg DVD's.. and he would complain when they didn't have any small sizes in mens clothing calling all white men fat ( It made me laugh just because of where i was for the last year). Then i would tell him about how in china there's only size xxs, xs, s and a little bigger then small. We just understood eachother.
We'd have amusing fights over who could use chopsticks better everytime we went out to eat. lol.. For some reason whenever we went to eat in chinese places they would always bring me a fork and he would laugh at me, although i can hardly use a fork anymore.
i met his Family before i left. His mom loved me, we had some good talks about china and culture and she kept telling me i should teach her son more about chinese culture.lol..
I miss him soo much but all beginnings come to an eventual and unavoidable end. I'll remember the wonderful memories forever.