Author: dear_charles

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Post time 2005-9-3 04:01:14 |Display all floors

Thanks ! But no thanks ! I do NOT watch porn !

Thank you for the links !

I think Atom is a disgrace to the Chinese people.

I don't watch porn because I am in my 50's and mature enough and old enough and it does not exciter me at all.

A few partially naked pictures may be a curiosity for the young men but I am NOT a young man.

I had very good communication with my friend (not my girlfriend). She is a very intelligent person and we exchanged dialogues aqnd she stated"There will be a war between CHINA and America".

I never want to start a political discussion but I praised her for knowing so much about international politics and just "shut my mouth.

It is very difficult to have a good relationship with a female friend but we discussed a lot of things. But I would refrain any inflammatory statement about any potential conflict (which ultimately included a war between CHINA and United States).

I kept my mouth shut, and my lip sealed and the conversation was dropped if I refused to discuss with her.

Why I do not watch porn now? because they are the same old, same old things. No.2 If you have a real person to play with, which one you prefer, an imaginary person in the movie or real fresh and blood that you can touch and talk to.

A strong friendship really depends on the intelligent level of both partners.

I may not totally agree with her but I respect her opinion and if she said,"there will be a war between CHINA and United States". I will keep quiet  and just let's the subject dropped and the case closed.

We never discussed this subject again despite she had brought this up twice !!

I really want to tell everyone communication between two people is more important than sex.  We had rigorous sex for hours and I always brought some bottled water for her and sat there in bed and discussed everything from politics, to her family, children, how to raise children, and her age to want a baby, etc.

I will close this thread and justtell all of you I did have a wonderful times and I want to protect her and not to expose our friendship on the internet for everyone to know.

Good Night !!!

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Post time 2005-9-3 09:27:43 |Display all floors

dating a chinese man

While i was in Canada i dated a chinese man as charles said. ( It's strange spend a year in china, never dated a chinese man, go to canada and then i find one, mostly cause to him i wasn't a trophy, to him i was this beautiful person inside  ( and  outside lol)

it was the most awesome experience ever,  yeah i fell hard for someone i can't have because i came back to China and he was getting over an ex girlfriend ( bad timing). But i wouldn't exchange the time i had with him for anything. I was dating a Banana ( yellow on the outside , whit on ehte inside), I was more chinese then he is. It was a perfect mix of chinese culture and my culture and man oh man was he hot! It was nice to have someone that understood both sides of it so well, probably why we got along so well.

People did look at us though. When we were in very chinese areas i got the same looks as i get here in China.  But when the odd occaission we went outside of chinatown then no more funny looks.  We had fun though,  in cantonese places he would speak and when we went to places where it was manderin i would speak  ( which confused the heck outta them meaning the people in the store).  We would go shopping together and he would make fun of white people and i would make fun of  some chinese things.. just silly things , like he would bet me how many white people were in a chinese store that sold bootleg DVD's..  and he would complain when they didn't have any small sizes in mens clothing calling all white men fat ( It made me laugh just because of where i was for the last year). Then i would tell him about how in china there's only size xxs, xs, s and a little bigger then small. We just understood eachother.

We'd have amusing fights over who could use chopsticks better everytime we went out to eat. lol..  For some reason whenever we went to eat in chinese places they would always bring me a fork and he would laugh at me, although i can hardly use a fork anymore.

i met his Family before i left. His mom loved me, we had some good talks about china and culture and she kept telling me i should teach her son more about chinese culture.lol..


I miss him soo much but all beginnings come to an eventual and unavoidable end. I'll remember the wonderful memories forever.

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Post time 2005-9-3 09:34:54 |Display all floors

All good things eventually come to an end. But I kept a lot of pictures (actual

Also I kept all the e-mails and also the pictures (attechments) on the e-mails and I still see her on an occasional basis.

I am in high gear in preparation for my future and love and friendship have to set aside and go on with my life.

But as "eaches" sat, "I had a ball" and the best times I ever had in my life.

Who knows what will happen in next ten years ?

I may open a practice right next to her ???? hahhha !!

(I also am going to Business Depot to buy the Canon photo paper to download the pictures on the internet) Well, I have both Canon and HP but HP colour ones are very expensive !!

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Post time 2005-9-4 00:10:52 |Display all floors

Communication, Communication, and comminciation with your girlfriend white or Ch

What I learn from this friendship is an open dialogue, an honest , open communication with my "white" female friend.

Are there some difference between Chinese girls and white girls?

Absolutely, I am not saying Chinese girls don't communicate. They talk, talk talk but talk to their friends and kept a lot to themselves.

White girls too. But it is very important to establish a dialogue, a communication line. Face to face, not on the phone, no qq, no internet chat, but eye contact , body language and discuss a variety of topics so you haev to see if you have anything  common down the road !!!

Remember a dialogue is not just a 1 hour phone call, but actual discussion of many topics, especially about CHINA if your girlfriend is white.

Ask her anything she knows about CHINA?

She was so bold to tell me there will be a WAR between CHINA and America !

I think she read too much American proproganda !!!!!     LOL !!!!

Now you see the difference dating an intelligent (or not so intelligent white girl ) who is brainwashed to believe there will be eventually a WAR between CHINA and United States) hahhha !!

I was laughing and I said she must be watching toooooooooo much CNN and Pat Robertson 700 Club ! Those bullshit anti-CHINA proproganda !!!!

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Post time 2005-9-4 00:21:52 |Display all floors

Communication, Communication, and comminciation with your girlfriend white or Ch

What I learn from this friendship is an open dialogue, an honest , open communication with my "white" female friend.

Are there some difference between Chinese girls and white girls?

Absolutely, I am not saying Chinese girls don't communicate. They talk, talk talk but talk to their friends and kept a lot to themselves.

White girls too. But it is very important to establish a dialogue, a communication line. Face to face, not on the phone, no qq, no internet chat, but eye contact , body language and discuss a variety of topics so you haev to see if you have anything  common down the road !!!

Remember a dialogue is not just a 1 hour phone call, but actual discussion of many topics, especially about CHINA if your girlfriend is white.

Ask her anything she knows about CHINA?

She was so bold to tell me there will be a WAR between CHINA and America !

I think she read too much American proproganda !!!!!     LOL !!!!

Now you see the difference dating an intelligent (or not so intelligent white girl ) who is brainwashed to believe there will be eventually a WAR between CHINA and United States) hahhha !!

I was laughing and I said she must be watching toooooooooo much CNN and Pat Robertson 700 Club ! Those bullshit anti-CHINA proproganda !!!!

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Post time 2005-9-27 08:25:05 |Display all floors

Dump her

It does not sound like she respects you enough if she is not willing to even considering marrying you. Plus, it sounds to me like you are saying that you have a little trouble with English, but she is not willing to learn Chinese. I am a white female with a Chinese boyfriend, and I am going to tutor him in English, and learn to write and speak Chinese. Because of my boyfriend, Shi Shi, I feel that marriage and relationships are special again. You should find a girl that respects you, and loves you enough to consider a bond like marriage.

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Post time 2005-9-27 14:14:33 |Display all floors

There is nothing you can change, give urself a break~!

Ask yourself if you still love her as you used to be.
There is no answer for people who fall in love, you make yourself in the trouble.

i just want to say: Take care, only youself can make it right

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