Author: mikeforan

Give me advice to Love or leave my Chinese wife…I am going crazy [Copy link] 中文

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Post time 2005-8-22 18:35:24 |Display all floors

mike

sorry to hear your sad story.  don't take her back and don't give her any more money.  she's playing you for a fool.  it's so easy to fall for some of these girls but you've gotta be careful.  there are literally millions of seriously attractive girls in china.  go and find yourself a good one.  you were unlucky.  i've had quite a few chinese girlfriends. a couple i've liked a lot but when they start lying about things (no matter how small), i know that's it.  game over.  go find another one.  it isn't difficult.  there has to be trust or it's never gonna work.  you know it makes sense.

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Post time 2005-8-22 18:43:21 |Display all floors

thanks man

I am not looking for sympathy, just want to make the right decision. I do not know much about Chinese culture, the way of life etc and I posted this message here only to find out first hand, how you guys think and how the traditional chinses girls behave.
I know that China is much more westernised now, but  without being judgemental, do you think that her behaviour, going to disco and gambling, by chinese standards is out of ordinary.

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Post time 2005-8-22 18:46:38 |Display all floors

True

You are right

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Post time 2005-8-22 19:02:53 |Display all floors

hehe

"I believe in the good nature of people and I still think that if she did not have these people around her, she is a good woman."

Obviouly you are makin fun of us. I guess you probably won't leave her. Poor guy you even don't have a clear mind to make things through.

You choose your life then you have rights to suffer it. You deserve that..

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Post time 2005-8-22 19:03:27 |Display all floors

Believe!

There are a lot of girls in China,Although u two meet bad ones,please believe there are also many good girls in China.

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Post time 2005-8-22 19:10:17 |Display all floors

most chinese girls

will try new things (which includes going to discos) if they have the opportunity.  doesn't make her a bad girl.  lying to you, and exploiting you does however.

is there much of an age gap between you?

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Post time 2005-8-22 20:53:19 |Display all floors

Not a great age gap between us

I am 38 and she is 30 now

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