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You understand we have pathetic Chinese men sticking around here in the forum? They claim that "China is the greatest country in the world", "Chinese culture is superior to others and assimilates other cultures", "Chinese people are modest and polite", but their behavior states just the contrary. This is the famous "Biaozi" and "aifang" article is all about. |
Don't try to discuss with them in a rational way because they don't deserve it and believe me, I have tried that before. At the end of the day, there are only 2 solutions. One is that you ignore them and let them bark, the other one is stand up and fight with them, they say dirty words to you, you say them back. I think either works, depends on your character and your mood.
I understand your concerns. It is a different culture and if you come to China, this is a situation you might have to face. You post your opinions here but only a few Chinese men will hear your voice and most likely the next Chinese man you run into has no idea about your opinions. You might have to be patient but if you explode sometimes, it is OK too.
It is like when I drive in Shanghai, there are so many *ssholes playing smart *ss and try to squeeze in front of me despite that they come from the wrong line and there is nobody behind me. That's the *sshole driving culture here, people have no respect for the others, they cannot wait 1 second, and they try so hard to screw up each other. So most of the time I tolerate it, to avoid accidents, but sometimes I just let go my anger and become very determined that he has to stay behind me.
Same applies with dealing with rude men.
Hope you enjoy your staying in China.
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