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Violence during Breakup, does it happen often? [Copy link] 中文

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Post time 2005-2-24 15:52:22 |Display all floors
ANCHORAGE, Alaska (Reuters) - A 44-year-old Anchorage man had his penis surgically reattached after it was cut off by an angry girlfriend and flushed down a toilet, local police said on Sunday.
The events unfolded about midnight on Saturday, after the pair had been arguing over an impending breakup, an Anchorage Police Department statement said. At some point, the two decided to have sex and the man agreed to let the woman tie his arms to a windowsill.

But the woman used a kitchen knife to amputate her partner's penis and flushed it down the toilet, police said. She untied the man, drove him to a local hospital and was cleaning up the bloody scene when police arrived at the home, according to the statement.

Summoned by the police, workers from the local water utility pulled the toilet up from the floor and were able to recover the severed penis, which was rushed to the hospital for the successful reattachment surgery on Sunday morning.

Police declined to identify the victim, but said his assailant was 35-year-old Kim Tran. She was charged with assault, domestic violence and tampering with evidence, and jailed without bail.

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Post time 2005-2-24 16:18:51 |Display all floors


Hell hath no fury, like a women scorned!

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Post time 2005-2-24 16:37:03 |Display all floors

aren't you thanking god

4 hav no one to detach from

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Post time 2005-2-25 08:13:31 |Display all floors

some statistics are not published in some country, but here is the UGLY stat in

•        Estimates range from 960,000 incidents of violence against a current or former spouse, boyfriend, or girlfriend per year to 4 million women who are physically abused by their husbands or live-in partners per year.
•        A woman is beaten every 15 seconds.
•        Domestic violence is the leading cause of injury to women between ages 15 and 44 in the united States - more than car accidents, muggings, and rapes combined.
•        Battered women are more likely to suffer miscarriages and to give birth to babies with low birth weights.
•        Sixty-three percent of the young men between the ages of 11 and 20 who are serving time for homicide have killed their mother's abuser.
•        While women are less likely than men to be victims of violent crimes overall, women are 5 to 8 times more likely than men to be victimized by an intimate partner.
•        Violence by an intimate accounts for about 21% of violent crime experienced by women and about 2 % of the violence experienced by men
•        In 92% of all domestic violence incidents, crimes are committed by men against women.
•        Of women who reported being raped and/or physically assaulted since the age of 18, three quarters (76 percent) were victimized by a current or former husband, cohabitating partner, date or boyfriend.
•        Women separated from their spouses had a victimization rate 1 1/2 times higher than separated men, divorced men, or divorced women.
•        Among all female murder victims in the U.S., 30% were slain by their husbands or boyfriends.
•        31,260 women were murdered by an intimate from 1976-1996.
•        Studies show that child abuse occurs in 30-60% of family violence cases that involve families with children.
•        A child’s exposure to the father abusing the mother is the strongest risk factor for transmitting violent behavior from one generation to the next.
•        Forty percent of teenage girls age 14 to 17 report knowing someone their age who has been hit or beaten by a boyfriend.
•        The U.S. Department of Justice estimates that 1.4 million adults are stalked annually in the United States.
•        Females accounted for 39% of the hospital emergency department visits for violence-related injuries in 1994 but 84% of the persons treated for injuries inflicted by intimates
•        Family violence costs the nation from $5 to $10 billion annually in medical expenses, police and court costs, shelters and foster care, sick leave, absenteeism, and non-productivity.
•        Husbands and boyfriends commit 13,000 acts of violence against women in the workplace every year.
•        The majority of welfare recipients have experienced domestic abuse in their adult lives and a high percentage are currently abused

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Post time 2005-2-25 08:19:48 |Display all floors

Warning Signs of Abuse

Are you with someone who

•        Is jealous and possessive toward you, won't let you have friends, checks up on you,won't accept breaking up.

•        Tries to control you by being very bossy, giving orders, making all the decisions; doesn't take your opinion seriously.

•        Is scary. You worry about how they will react to things you say or do. Threatens you,uses or owns weapons.

•        Is violent: has a history of fighting, loses temper quickly. brags about mistreating other.

•        Pressures you for sex, is forceful or scary around sex. Thinks women or girls are sex objects. Attempts to manipulate or guilt-trip you by saying "If you really loved me you would....." Gets too serious about the relationship too fast.

•        Abuses drugs or alcohol and pressures you to take them.

•        Blames you when they mistreat you. Says you provoked them, pressed their buttons, made them do it, led them on.

•        Has a history of bad relationships and blames the other person for all the problems. "Women just don't understand me"

•        Believes that men should be in control and powerful and that women should be passive and submissive.

•        Has hit, pushed, choked, restrained, kicked,or physically abused you.

•        Your family and friends have warned you about the person or told you they were worried for you safety.

------ one thing that especially caught the attention is

"Believes that men should be in control and powerful and that women should be passive and submissive."

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Post time 2005-2-25 11:13:07 |Display all floors

My advice is : Walk away from a broken relationship" It is not worth to kill you

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Post time 2005-2-25 13:07:02 |Display all floors

the violence often takes place in the break-up in China

i have heard of the following stories:

a man often beats a woman in order to get divorced;

a man bites off the nipples of a girl who refuses to have sex with him;

a man bites off his wife's nose when she wants to get divorced;

a boy kills a girl who wants to break up with him.

some other violence can be even more scaring than the above.

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