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a very well thought out answer indeed. Maybe we americans don't give you canadians enough credit. Just kidding. XD|
Anyway, since the pictures were taken before you two met, I really don't think it's that unusual. I've been married for 5 years now, and my wife and I both still have all the pictures of the people that were once a part of our seperate lives. Time, once passed, never comes back. Photos, letters, and journals are kept so you would always have a piece of the past that made you who you are today. The only foolish thing he did was not being sensiable enough to keep the old pictures in a seperate folder.
Yes, I can understand why seeing something from his past might bother you a little, but don't you think some of your anger stem not so much from your suspicion of him, as much as you own insecurity of where you are in his life? Isn't that why you peeped into his computer without his knowledge, hmmm? :) Young lovers, aren't they whimiscally grand.
My suggestion depends on what kind of man your boyfriend is.
If he is a mature and understandig man, talk to him gently about it, open the conversation with an apology about looking into his things. Don't accuse him of anything, just asking nicely about who they are. He will understand, and explain himself fully as any real man would. Don't keep the secret inside you, as it will eat at you for a long time and effect your happiness.
If he still an emotional young man (we all are at one point), then I would ask you to suffer a little and wait a while. If, by the off chance that he is still seeing his ex-girlfriend, I'm sure you'll notice all the signs now. Other wise, talk to him when the time is right, when he is most calm and at ease.
You said that you two are happy together and want to get married. It sounds like you two are a happy couple. If you are to have a happy future together, then the strength of your love should easily pass this little test. Sorry for my chinese, but isn't there a old chinese saying? "yi ren bu yong, yong ren bu yi"? I think it might apply here.
I can't resist. I must say, what you did got a little chuckle out of me. So sneaky, but yet so... cute in a girly way, and the reward for your little "covert action" is that you "chi chu". XD
Sorry about my amusement. Honestly, my very best wishes to you both. Cheers. \(^-^)/