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Let me suggest...
...that online is the wrong place to look for that kind of relationship.|
The truth is, when you are chatting online with someone, and they don't see your picture, they will automatically create a picture in their head...a fantasy. And that fantasy person probably is not similar to you at all.
When they meet the REAL person, they discover that the real person is not like the fantasy person. They are disappointed, and give up.
You are right -- it is EASIER for beautiful women and very handsome men to attract others. But that's not all.
In REAL life, if you meet a guy and talk with him, then his image of you is the REAL image. And if he becomes more interested in you, falls in love with you, he is falling in love with the REAL you.
And keep in mind...while you have problems because you are not as beautiful as some women, I know many very beautiful women who are just as unhappy -- or even more unhappy -- than you. Because for them, they say men chase them ONLY for their beauty, for their bodies, and don't really care about them or love them.
There is no situation that is perfect. Every person has their problems.
Rather than focussing on the problems, focus on the solutions.