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Consider this. . .
I read somewhere that men have a conscious or unconscious sexual "thought" every six seconds. Whether it is just to notice a pretty woman or something attractive, or whether it is a conscious acknowledgement of sex, it is clear that sex is fundamental to being human. I've not read about a similar study about women, but female sexuality is as easily measured. I'm sure that women notice attractive men or something attractive about a man frequently, but probably not as consciously as do men. |
It may be difficult for women to appreciate just how powerful the male libido is, but most women tease that "Men seem to only have one thing on their minds" and to a degree this is true. The sex drive is programmed into our biology and it won't go away. Young men and women struggle quite a bit with their sex drive (e.g., trying to figure out how to attract each other, how to express it appropriate, etc.).
However, we humans have to learn what is appropriate and inappropriate in society. Men should not be speaking in a vulgar or even obscene way to women, unless she gives permission (many women enjoy such talk). Some men don't realize that they cannot speak to most women the same way as they do to their men friends. So, perhaps next time you might tease him and say, "Oh, you men can be so naughty, but most women are really modest about this topic" and then change the subject or you can say, "We can talk more about this topic later" and change the subject.
Everyone is interested in sex and in an appropriate setting, men and women can have intelligent and enlightening discussions about male and female sexuality. Most men DO find women mysterious and even baffling; most women DO feel the the same way about men.