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to be frank , i do not know much about it .now ,i am a single one., but in future , i am sure that i will get married with sb. maybe i can have a try to express it in my own way. just from my point of view, of course.|
after scaning this article , i have a strong feeling that "single" is much better than "married'., as if that makes me afraid of it. but i do not agree on it in my deep heart .i could not understand exactly why people will have those ideas . we can take some sentences for examples.
e.g--Single means you have the time to grow and be the person you want to be.
--- Single means freedom~~
---Single means that there could be something wonderful around
the corner and you can take advantage of it.
^^ Marriage Certificate is just another name for a work permit.
^^Love is one long sweet dream, and marriage is the alarm clock.
i doubt if a person get married ,does it mean that he or she has no freedom or they will not be wonderful and perfect? why do the persons choose single lifes ?as it were that persons want to achieve more important goals ,want to make his or her career first , have no preparation. or it is for the simple reason that he or she is afraid of marriage .haha^^^^ i have never do some survey, so maybe there are more expected whys to be comprehended.
As for marriage, there are also some beautiful descriptions like these “compared with amativeness , marriage is more practical”. ”if one get married , one need not pretend himself, as if relieved of heavy load.”
There is a ad reading that ”if u can not find the person to get married with , it show that u have no ability to do the thing (why the company engage u ) and if u do not want to marry sb , it means that u are not a responsible person(how can u do the assignments that the company distribute)”
I read the Plato’s theory of ear. it is said that if u can spend your whole life to wait the person , u can surely find right one someday ; but can u ?now that u can not , value the ear at hand!
Anyway , it depends in some extent. what a person can do is value his/her own life. u should make your life to be better, maybe loving your work , keeping in touch with your good friends , and leaving some spare time to do your own thing are the best choices.
I completely agree on that happiness is the most important thing in our daily life. Well , i hope everybody can live a happy life.