maybe for people like us haha, but in most China women don't usually date like we do in the west, this I think you know! The only women in China willing to date are those types you see in the night club e.g. and even then a guy has to be on his top game, looks, money e.g. Don't see many 3 tier city guys dating a girl casually for sex unless he is on the way to marring her. Only option for that guy is prostitute (If he can afford it) or as we are talking about "Porn"