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I admit that marriage are the thing with two sides' effort but only one. The other's famliy is absolutely very important. We have to consider about many things, for marriage is really a complex thing rather than simple one. Lovers making up one small family means two big family getting together. We should learn how to deal with the complex relationships and try our best to get used to the big family. But one thing is definite, the feeling of love between each other is the most important than any other relationships.|
I admit that there're actaully some pure profiteers marry the other just for some material profits such as money, power, status, ralationship of family...What I want to say it that I have to show my left sympathies to all the poor guys, reluctantly. I wonder whether they thought of what they did is really worthwhile. A cancer patient even still have something memorable to recall. Nevertheless, what have you left when you are in hot youth? Humph, I'm afraid only yourself can genuinely bare and feel the bitter and astringent of the marriage,living with a person who you've never loved. God maybe can forgive your cheats, but I'm afraid there aren't anyone besides God can save your soul. Nothing you can feel?No regret? No poor? No repent?Give my sympathy in charity to all these poor guys again~~
I admit that there're some reasons else to the unsuccessful marriage. Such as just for sympathies from kindheart, repay for being saved from danger or mischief and so on. I have to say that they are not mature enough to feel discriminate the feeling of love from others. Marriage need mature, not only materially but also mentally,which are both most essential.
I also admit that with time elapsing, there're more responsibilies than love tying couples together after marriage. But the responsibilty springs from the true love, which mantains the family in a sense and in some measure. As someone else said, marriage life is actually flat and monotonous, without full of romances like what we imagined. Give your marriage life more romantic elements, as putting suger in the coffee. Marriage life is not always calm and tranquil, sometimes ups and downs.
We should show our courage and support to the other when he/she encounter abstacles or mischiefs. You are the person whom he/she need most in the case. Maybe a kiss with deep love, some words with care or worry, even a hint can make him/her face the music and get rid of the entanglement of clouds. You are the very source of his/her power. Lovers are a whole body with two souls together, you are in the same boat.So in spite of rich or not, healthy or not, wise or not..., hold your hands closely together.
True love is invaluable and happy marriage is precious.
Good luck with eveyone~