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Post time 2003-11-5 15:30:57 |Display all floors
THE TRUE LOVE IS THE BASIS OF THE HAPPY MARRIAGE,THE HAPPY MARRIAGE IS THE FRUIT OF THE TRUE LOVE!

I know what I will say seems to be lack of persuation, for I'm still a single now, but I can't help myself but to say something about the eternal topic——LOVE and MARRIAGE~

That reminds me that the description on TURE LOVE which I heard from a philosopher and psychologist a few years ago——Love is the communication of hearts and the integragation of the soul and flesh! Though any defininations on love is not applicable to everyone,I still think the above defination is proper and convinctive,so it has embedied in my mind!!

As the saying goes:Marriage in haste,then repent at leisure!! With the higher rate of divorce and abortion,these phenomenons cause the concers about the family and social problems.I think families and society and governemt should take the responsibility to deal with the serious things! Why the ture love which everybody talks about but few have seen? I help myself wonder how come more and more persons don't take LOVE seriously,even just regard it as kidding and a pure game!Outrageous, be way out of line,in my opinion!

As you know,everyone has different family and cultrual background,as a result of  different attitudes towards LOVE and MARRIAGE! With growing up day on day and more physical mature and mental mature,we gradually shape our own view of point about LOVE and MARRIAGE! Mentality conduct behavior,we differs from others,but there's only two results,happy or sad which we finally feels it in our real hearts!

I suggest we'd better ask some questions both ourself and the beloved as follows:
1. Am I really love her/him?
2. Is he/she really love me?
3. Whether I know so much of her/him and her/his family background?(the enough mutual communications)
4.  Whether I can stand the shortcomings and imperfections of her/him?
5.  What's is the his/her most appealing factor to me?
6.  What I can do for her/him?
7.  Whether we are all prepared for the marriage?
      ......
In short,marriage really deserves great considerations. So we have every reason to be prudent enough before you decide to marry someone.  No regret is OK~ :)
If you have any disagreements to what I said above,let's agree with the disagreements~

Finally, I'm sure good guy will determined to find his/her half!
I also hope every couple of lovers turn out all right ultimately!


Author: Kelphon

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Post time 2003-11-11 16:55:54 |Display all floors

Marriage just is a part of you living!

Usually, the person you will  marry is not the one you love best , but he/she is whom you meet at the appropriate time. Marriage just is a part of your living!

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Post time 2003-11-12 22:11:07 |Display all floors

re: Marriage just is a part of you living!

I think i can not agree with you for true love can not be compared with necessitis in our daily life.How can you say Marriage is a part of our life?It seems that you need it more than you like it.Why you get married if do not want to?Reluctance should not appear in holy marriage!What Kelphon said gains my support cause i have the boy i loved and him too,we think get married is our best ending which is not what you so-called "part".

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Post time 2003-11-12 22:56:17 |Display all floors

Hi,lindajoy,I couldn't agree with you more~

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Post time 2003-11-13 00:43:05 |Display all floors

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Post time 2003-11-13 11:28:10 |Display all floors

my opinion

Hi Happy day
All is changing, people are, simple e.g. there are not the same river.
The river is moving all the time, people is changing, the body, the idea and the emotion.
I don’t know if you have such feeling, today i love it but tomorrow I find I don’t love it any more. It is common
Why? Because all of us is changing
So value what you have now

And all the love and marriage need to manage with our heart,
You need to treat it, honest and careful.
Many treat it different between the love and the marriage
The love is important, the marriage is more important
In the love, the two show the good aspect, try to hide the bad one, and do all for the lover
After marriage all the bad will come to face. Maybe think it is ok, because we had marriage
No, it is completeness wrong.
A certificate is nothing, if you don’t manage it with you heart, maybe some day you will find your partner have far away from you.
The marriage is only a beginning, the two need try best to involve it, manage it.
You and your partner is changing, we should learn to how to deal with it.
Ok this is my opinion.


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Post time 2003-11-13 16:32:24 |Display all floors

Love is significant .But it is not the solely key point!

There are several significant basis for a happy marriage: material basis, similar value orientation, acceptable social rank, love,etc.
You can not say love is the only basis of a happy marriage. But, love is actually an important support for a prospective marrital combination.

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