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It is widely accepted that, Not all Chinese are perfectly friendly,so do foreignor.|
Teaching is strictly Very Tao chi Bu Chi Hao de Gongzuo,You can't make all your callmate in a full class,30-60 satisified with every of your lecturegiven. You can't make friends with all of them,even hard to accquained with them in some smiliar way,becoz you behave more like an Adult individualy and indenpently by your living.....
But it is hard to know what the life the Student would persume by their standard of living surported by some others,we are sometime ashame of talking of any single item of luxury,but life force make us change,such as dress yourself in right close when you go out trying to find a decent job,or some more interesting people and relative,giving and receiting a meal. I think the turning point of school come from The Year 3-4,when we decide to approach the soicety in some ways of connections,most time you should be ready to eat out with these ones who help you gain some connetion and do you a favor,that is why some restaurant so popular and giving our life some excited experience to taste some more goods.
. I think our school find it unpolite to fire a foreign teacher,so that they ask me to fit to the teacher,or when you looking for a foreign teacher,they should make him or her be qualified to the job....
one more, Teacher in our mind is quiet different from Tutor and headmaster is different from teacher,but now in the school,these stuff are mixed,and anyone who can give a lecture pain by limit money like parttime job.
and You see" attention please" according to our school principle, students or teachers are not allowed to wear sliper around the compus,but many foreignors do it for they make them cool.
and If someone entered the schoolgate, they are surposed to ask show their ID.but for any kinda of foreingors entering the school,no guards dare to ask,even the school have the proclaimation some way the school are closed,not for public this time,but foringor insisted in and using their own key to unlock their office and using their computer their,while the warning on the paper pasted on the door was torn,which saying sealed on what time.
and About the foreing teachers aparment, in a community, foreign teachers are likely to have nightlife and late to back home when curfew time passed... So they knocking the door and let and elderly guard,<retired man granted that job>.
Some for some male forin teachers, they bring strange women and sometime some girls from our classes in their house for party and let them have a cooking skill show for him,and the edlerly who can not know English,stop the student or strangers, the Forin men keep say ingoring...
a lots of things happened due to my study in this private school with more chance access to some foreinors.........Few are respected by me as a professor,most of them are english abuse waste men who come to China to a trip by unitising a chance granted them a name of Teacher,respectedly.
Yeah, When something little things broken,they< foreign teacher> haven't have it fixed, they keep complaining,such as the light from lamp unstable,shaking........and the bath room something unproper.
I have some times with the logictis service guys and I find they are very afraid of doing favor for the forignor and the foreignor make small thing as an ox things,and keep the admintration altering them to help it and must do this day and that day,even when in midnight something happened.
And one day, the teniciant come to the room of a female foreign teacher,to fix her light problem,and the Guard who holding all key,unlock the room for him,and he is doing his job there for some long time,then the foreingor come back for a rest and seeing a stranger in her room. and she was furied that anyone with her permisiion on certian day can't come to her room, and like the exgarreting the serviousness that she assumed this Thing should be accussed by american law if any american do this,and show that by gesture to One Guard i m fimilar.
They are many stories here,and are caused by unorangised situation for they are all pratictioners are not informed to do something,and how something wrong to do.
Continue or not,About the politeness on High context......
if you are been to Village, a host refused the present sent by a guess,and a guess insist to give host the gift,especial on speical days, they are pushing over the game like" tag of war",please receiving this ,and my little concern for your kindness, no no, we are friends,you don't need waste money on it,please bring it back, or i have lots of this kinda of things...... They raised their voice, each one acted like unhappy and pretend to show anger when one not do on her wishes,
Guess might say if you are not receive , i won't come again, saying you are a trouble of man,don't waste time,i should go ontime please receive it.
Host might say, if you giving this to me always, you are not welcome to come next, you are such stubborn man.
They push each's hand,guess trying to escaping after place the host her gift and Host keep grasp her cloth,sometime let her bring back some gilt from host which She have sufficent at home. When voice come to the peak, it sound like a quarrling
When i was young kid, the Host asked me to have lunch in her house,i said no, sometime my grandma asked me that giving the present and come back as soon as possible and cook more rice,sometimes grandma told me i can have lunch there if i like or invited.. But i always don't like to stay to someone i m not very familiar,but they are my relative no much chance to meet with me in.
If you come to the host room at wrong time as they have already cooked the rice in cerntian amount according how many people in their house, you can stay and have lunch,but sometime they want to cook some noodle< noodle not popular in South,fujian,no my favorite>or they can eat noodle ,and let me eat rice.. But these kinda of things are considered touble and i will be a trouble maker... and i m tricky enough to escape from the host' witness and come back home succeffly.
Someone you come there at night, you will posess a room bed to sleep,so the host would send one of his family member's to neibor house or let one sleep together with other,but leaving me sleep in comfortable house.....So when you go to visit relative,be sure at right time and have sleep or not