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Will you marry a man do not have his own apartment or house?   [Copy link] 中文

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Post time 2014-10-10 23:20:09 |Display all floors
Aplix_linda Post time: 2014-10-10 21:28
base on Chinese tradition,a house is a must for new couple,which make sure the stable life for famil ...

quite a speech

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Post time 2014-10-11 08:06:26 |Display all floors
Yes, China is very backward in this way.  Some young Chinese are opening up and becoming more Western, but many are still treated like adult children by their parents and think very traditionally when it comes to marriage.

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Post time 2014-10-11 09:58:07 |Display all floors
HailChina! Post time: 2014-10-11 08:09
I dont think I would even be comfortable having sex with a guy that didnt own a nice house. What if  ...

You MUST be a Chinese  girl from a very rural area.
What a mentality, what an ignorance, what a low or none education.

Nobody in this thread has mentioned love as a (main) ingredient in the marriage. The OP and many here just focus in the material.

What in the insane mind has to do the house with the sex? If a woman get pregnant accidently, its her problem and his partner too for being careless.
So in your logic woman who has sex with a man for X reasons, she should be sure the guy owns a house, right?

That´s why I laugh when I used to read here that the Chinese people are humble. Please.

The most pathetic about you HailChina is you pretend to be from Australia in this forum.

What a shame.
Denial, according the psychoanalysts, is one of the most primary mechanisms of defense. It consists in the attitude of denying or minimizing obvious facts of reality with which the individual can´t  cope or whose irresponsibility is unable to meet.

And I agree.

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Post time 2014-10-11 10:34:02 |Display all floors
magnetic1974 Post time: 2014-10-9 12:39
Marry is not joke!, my wife won't married with me if I am not bought a house for her and her family. ...

so what you are saying is that only reason your wife loves you is because you are financially stable?

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Post time 2014-10-11 10:35:28 |Display all floors
messi30 Post time: 2014-10-10 10:27
So you are not the husband, You are the provider.

I was going to write something similar but then read your post...

You said it all .... ..

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Post time 2014-10-11 10:38:50 |Display all floors
messi30 Post time: 2014-10-11 09:58
You MUST be a Chinese  girl from a very rural area.
What a mentality, what an ignorance, what a lo ...

Imagine a movie scene........... Boy and Girl went on a nice and romantic date.... they reaches boys home and the boy invites the girl ..

Boy : Would you like to come up for a cup of coffee......

Girl : Sure , but I want to know if it your own home or rented   

I am really surprised by some response here.

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