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Will you marry a man do not have his own apartment or house?   [Copy link] 中文

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Post time 2014-10-9 17:00:35 |Display all floors
i dont think its unreasonable to buy your wife a house and a car, but i dont agree with giving money to her parents. i had issues before dealing with the parents, and they are very demanding....
if you want something in life get off your backside, and do it yourself!! don't rely on others to do it for you

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Post time 2014-10-10 10:27:14 |Display all floors
magnetic1974 Post time: 2014-10-9 12:39
Marry is not joke!, my wife won't married with me if I am not bought a house for her and her family. ...
Marry is not joke!, my wife won't married with me if I am not bought a house for her and her family.

So you are not the husband, You are the provider.


My wife studied me for year, before she decided to married me back in 2008

That´s another sad reality in China, Many women study their future partners. More assets, more interesting.


Chinese girls are not dumb they don't go for the men  with no good financial foundation.

Agree with you, they are not dumb but you are one of the biggest dumbs in China.




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Is very rare to hear or to read that couples in China marry for love.
Magnetic´s post is a proof

Denial, according the psychoanalysts, is one of the most primary mechanisms of defense. It consists in the attitude of denying or minimizing obvious facts of reality with which the individual can´t  cope or whose irresponsibility is unable to meet.

And I agree.

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Post time 2014-10-10 10:28:50 |Display all floors
skywalk1 Post time: 2014-10-9 16:17
lol...So impressive. I didn't know you were so mature. I'm happy for you and your wife. :)


His wife and her family are more happy

Denial, according the psychoanalysts, is one of the most primary mechanisms of defense. It consists in the attitude of denying or minimizing obvious facts of reality with which the individual can´t  cope or whose irresponsibility is unable to meet.

And I agree.

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Post time 2014-10-10 14:30:58 |Display all floors
This post was edited by skywalk1 at 2014-10-10 14:31

:)
There is progress whether you are going forward or backward; the thing is to move.

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Post time 2014-10-10 21:28:39 |Display all floors
base on Chinese tradition,a house is a must for new couple,which make sure the stable life for family ang children.as financial foundation,house becomes the top priority.

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Post time 2014-10-10 23:17:35 |Display all floors
parcher Post time: 2014-10-9 17:00
i dont think its unreasonable to buy your wife a house and a car, but i dont agree with giving money ...

poor you

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