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Screw it. Maybe it would help somone. ... 1 2 3 4 5 6 .. 21 Friendship, Love, Relationships 140 34025 rebmevon 2005-5-12 15:03:59
  Sorry for the extended absence. The stress of work, coupled with my wife’s illness, the last coupl ...
Screw it. Maybe it would help somone. ... 1 2 3 4 5 6 .. 21 Friendship, Love, Relationships 140 34025 rebmevon 2005-5-12 15:03:59
  Well, monalisa. Thanks for the advice. It’s been more than two years since her first breakdown, s ...
a man never cry is a brutal man? ... 1 2 Friendship, Love, Relationships 7 3326 starryeyed 2005-4-21 04:26:15
  I wouldn't call a man "brutal" if he doesn't cry after losing his love. Think about it. If he love ...
Love is all? ... 1 2 3 4 Friendship, Love, Relationships 22 4862 auchengyu 2006-5-9 11:53:50
  Don't get drunk. It's so not worth it. I know we are all guilty of doing this, and abusing ourselv ...
Screw it. Maybe it would help somone. ... 1 2 3 4 5 6 .. 21 Friendship, Love, Relationships 140 34025 rebmevon 2005-5-12 15:03:59
  Well, there is good news and bad news. Well, mostly bad news. The good news is that she loved my f ...
Screw it. Maybe it would help somone. ... 1 2 3 4 5 6 .. 21 Friendship, Love, Relationships 140 34025 rebmevon 2005-5-12 15:03:59
  Sorry nihao, I don't have a brother. But thanks for the compliment. I'm flattered. Anyway. My wi ...
Screw it. Maybe it would help somone. ... 1 2 3 4 5 6 .. 21 Friendship, Love, Relationships 140 34025 rebmevon 2005-5-12 15:03:59
  I once said in another thread that what separates a good man from a bad one is a conscience. I can ...
Screw it. Maybe it would help somone. ... 1 2 3 4 5 6 .. 21 Friendship, Love, Relationships 140 34025 rebmevon 2005-5-12 15:03:59
  But I'm reluctant to do so. I'm a medicinal chemist, and the way we do thing, we would like to avoi ...
Screw it. Maybe it would help somone. ... 1 2 3 4 5 6 .. 21 Friendship, Love, Relationships 140 34025 rebmevon 2005-5-12 15:03:59
  Although we live in the house that we built so we could have children, we don't have any kids becaus ...
Screw it. Maybe it would help somone. ... 1 2 3 4 5 6 .. 21 Friendship, Love, Relationships 140 34025 rebmevon 2005-5-12 15:03:59
  People like my wife are often misunderstood. There is still a certain amount of social stigma, even ...
Screw it. Maybe it would help somone. ... 1 2 3 4 5 6 .. 21 Friendship, Love, Relationships 140 34025 rebmevon 2005-5-12 15:03:59
  Thanks for the show of concern. UMHC is one of the best health centers in the country, and I’m for ...
Screw it. Maybe it would help somone. ... 1 2 3 4 5 6 .. 21 Friendship, Love, Relationships 140 34025 rebmevon 2005-5-12 15:03:59
  Selrach, don't worry yourself about it. My wife is in good hands. We know about the QT prolongatio ...
Screw it. Maybe it would help somone. ... 1 2 3 4 5 6 .. 21 Friendship, Love, Relationships 140 34025 rebmevon 2005-5-12 15:03:59
  I guess what precipitated my behavior last night was stupidity. I’m not usually like this. I’m n ...
Screw it. Maybe it would help somone. ... 1 2 3 4 5 6 .. 21 Friendship, Love, Relationships 140 34025 rebmevon 2005-5-12 15:03:59
  Sorry for not getting back to you all earlier, but I was too hung over, and I'm still a little dizzy ...
free or marriage! Attachments ... 1 2 3 Friendship, Love, Relationships 19 7534 caringhk 2005-5-12 11:54:09
  Forget what others think. Forget what you think is moral. Marry because of expectations is wrong, ...
what do you think the sex action before marrage? ... 1 2 Friendship, Love, Relationships 11 5341 selrahc 2005-4-11 06:19:26
  To me, it's ok as long as you truly love the other person. Go with your own beliefs, and don’t' wo ...
Screw it. Maybe it would help somone. ... 1 2 3 4 5 6 .. 21 Friendship, Love, Relationships 140 34025 rebmevon 2005-5-12 15:03:59
  7:12 am. The sun is coming up. Looking into my backyard. Peaceful farm that goes uncultivated. H ...
Screw it. Maybe it would help somone. ... 1 2 3 4 5 6 .. 21 Friendship, Love, Relationships 140 34025 rebmevon 2005-5-12 15:03:59
  You know what? I’ll probably feel stupid or posting this. But screw it. All of you who are despe ...
Screw it. Maybe it would help somone. ... 1 2 3 4 5 6 .. 21 Friendship, Love, Relationships 140 34025 rebmevon 2005-5-12 15:03:59
  The same question haunts me everyday. “Should I get on with my life?” I’m not even 30 yet, but ...
Screw it. Maybe it would help somone. ... 1 2 3 4 5 6 .. 21 Friendship, Love, Relationships 140 34025 rebmevon 2005-5-12 15:03:59
  In 6 months, we would have been married 6 years. 9/6/1999. I put up a brave front everyday when I ...
Screw it. Maybe it would help somone. ... 1 2 3 4 5 6 .. 21 Friendship, Love, Relationships 140 34025 rebmevon 2005-5-12 15:03:59
  Saturday night. I used to party. Yes, I’m drunk. 10 years ago. I was drunk. I was drunk on my ...
Screw it. Maybe it would help somone. ... 1 2 3 4 5 6 .. 21 Friendship, Love, Relationships 140 34025 rebmevon 2005-5-12 15:03:59
  We were happy once. All our friends envied us. Good jobs. Big house. Nice cars. Wealthy friends. ...
Screw it. Maybe it would help somone. ... 1 2 3 4 5 6 .. 21 Friendship, Love, Relationships 140 34025 rebmevon 2005-5-12 15:03:59
  More than two years have passed since then. There were good days and bad days, but we endured. I k ...
Why do we have to compare? Travel 4 3540 ivyphil 2005-4-10 19:30:09
  I know that behavior myself, and it bothers me as well. Over here, they would be considered snobs. ...
chopstics...... ... 1 2 3 Travel 20 10036 ilunga 2005-4-10 00:56:58
  "When in Rome, do the Romans." *cough* I almost spitted out my coffee. LOFLMAO XD Sorry, the prop ...
Is it normal..? Attachments ... 1 2 3 Friendship, Love, Relationships 20 7535 starryeyed 2005-4-26 05:36:40
  Starryeyed is thinking about proposing to the guy... you know... asking for his "hand in marriage". ...
What do you think of university marriage? Attachments ... 1 2 3 4 5 6 .. 45 Friendship, Love, Relationships 308 101297 yxw_9188 2005-12-5 20:33:28
  The most common legal marrying age for most of the states here in the US is 18. But like so many th ...
Is it normal..? Attachments ... 1 2 3 Friendship, Love, Relationships 20 7535 starryeyed 2005-4-26 05:36:40
  Sorry, just came back from a lunch outing, and I have a lot of beer in my system, so excuse me if I' ...
I Love U Attachments ... 1 2 3 4 5 Friendship, Love, Relationships 29 10518 starryeyed 2005-4-18 07:42:17
  If you are talking about chinese women in China, then I'm going to guess its because "I love you" is ...
Question for Chinese Women ... 1 2 Friendship, Love, Relationships 12 5311 zhoumei 2005-4-8 14:09:15
  While love is probably the most common reason behind marriages, but it's rarely the sole reason. Ea ...
Do you think gay people are normal people? ... 1 2 3 4 5 6 .. 11 Friendship, Love, Relationships 70 15888 ouyangdan 2008-10-2 21:08:38
  "- They would not be producing replacement population. In the pre-modern society with very high infa ...
When do you consider that he or she is your boy(girl)friend? ... 1 2 Friendship, Love, Relationships 7 3864 starryeyed 2005-4-6 04:43:33
  ...when you start calling each other boyfriend and girlfriend. What I had done for my last 2 relati ...
eager for advice Friendship, Love, Relationships 5 3068 guyjerry 2005-4-5 08:38:08
  I'm somewhat amused by your post. As so many men have found out, only a girl can be so complex. ^^ ...
Do you think gay people are normal people? ... 1 2 3 4 5 6 .. 11 Friendship, Love, Relationships 70 15888 ouyangdan 2008-10-2 21:08:38
  Ask yourself this question "are genetic mutations normal?' Would evolution be possible without muta ...
Since so many people are talking about love on this forum, let's take a look at Attachments ... 1 2 3 4 5 6 Friendship, Love, Relationships 41 13173 laokung2004 2005-5-28 23:53:35
  Both subjects are too nebulous. Why try to describe/define/catagorize love? It can't be done. It' ...
men and women cannot be friends coz the sex part is always out there ... 1 2 3 4 Friendship, Love, Relationships 25 9730 starryeyed 2005-4-27 07:01:17
  "Most" doesn't equal to all. Good for you. But I think you should speak for yourself instead. ^^ ...
men and women cannot be friends coz the sex part is always out there ... 1 2 3 4 Friendship, Love, Relationships 25 9730 starryeyed 2005-4-27 07:01:17
  it's actually true most of the time. Girls can seperate their feelings towards guys into "just frie ...
freebaby seeking your opinion ... 1 2 3 Friendship, Love, Relationships 16 6358 ali000 2005-4-18 23:27:43
  First let me say, I’m impressed, and I’m not one to be impressed easily. Your English skill is de ...
a true love is amazing Attachments ... 1 2 3 4 Friendship, Love, Relationships 25 5737 bend_it 2006-4-8 08:59:39
  Often, one can find merit in being a nihilist. "Discretion is the better part of valor." This age o ...
Do you have any tips about beautify yourself? ... 1 2 3 4 Travel 22 10613 zljzlj 2005-3-30 16:57:14
  For guys, the key is to appear confident, so what you do with your look should reflect that. Don't ...
freebaby seeking your opinion ... 1 2 3 Friendship, Love, Relationships 16 6358 ali000 2005-4-18 23:27:43
  Well, it's natural to want what you can't have. That's just the way it is. Drinking before I turne ...
Chinese girl : I want your comments! ... 1 2 3 4 5 Friendship, Love, Relationships 29 12546 hongworld 2005-4-26 12:25:04
  So, even a small percentage of a huge number is a large number. Over all, girls tend to gravitate t ...
how do you know your gf/bf love you or not? Friendship, Love, Relationships 4 2429 floweridk 2005-3-31 01:23:11
  Come now, most of us who grew up in the west have these clichéd gestures memorized. Along with a w ...
who can tell me why ? ... 1 2 Travel 13 6038 doumom 2005-4-1 13:25:17
  Jealousy is a good sign that he really likes you, and don't want to risk losing you. A moderate amo ...
is it ok two girls/ two boys in the bed? ... 1 2 Friendship, Love, Relationships 9 4367 cola817 2005-3-28 17:31:59
  It's not normal for a serious relationship. We guys are instinctually possessive. If we care about ...
Question for Survey. If U R Interested, Plz Leave Ur Say Here ... 1 2 Friendship, Love, Relationships 13 4018 flavie 2005-9-21 10:58:06
  1. If by that question, you mean he/she is doing it by design, then the answer for me is clear: say ...
Please write here if you are happy or not... ... 1 2 3 4 Friendship, Love, Relationships 24 9033 floweridk 2005-3-31 01:15:21
  When you find a moment of peace in an otherwise stormy life. It can be a moment of triumph after a ...
she has been in love with a man for 18 years, but the love turns out to be a one ... 1 2 Friendship, Love, Relationships 7 5426 snappysammy 2008-11-25 03:32:46
  intermezzo, when a problem cuts to the bones, applying bandage on the surface isn't going to solve t ...
RIGHT TO DIE ? ... 1 2 3 4 5 6 Friendship, Love, Relationships 35 9642 selrahc 2005-5-2 17:18:33
  You have the right to die. Terminal cancer patients routinely refuse treatment, and choose to die. ...
Hi, long time no see, I am back again. Friendship, Love, Relationships 4 2576 butteagle 2005-3-27 21:28:26
  I played too hard in my teenage years as well during my early 20's. it was lots of fun, but also go ...
Can I forgive him? ... 1 2 3 4 5 Friendship, Love, Relationships 29 8455 flavie 2005-9-21 11:12:50
  Family opposition is often a factor. I grew up in the west, yet, when I was dating, I carried a gre ...
What are the bad habits Western People do what drive Chinese Crazy? ... 1 2 3 Travel 16 8483 punkass 2005-3-26 08:30:48
  I grew up in the US, so some of the stuff I don't really understand either. For example, the fish t ...
How to recognize whether a girl is falling in love with a man or not Friendship, Love, Relationships 2 2545 xiphoid 2005-3-25 00:08:41
  After all, if someone is in love, it's hard not to notice. ^^ I think what you are asking is how t ...
Forbidden Love in China ... 1 2 3 4 5 Friendship, Love, Relationships 28 9628 johnners 2005-4-7 19:31:44
  Everything that is to be said has already been said. Arguments for both sides have all been present ...
Can I forgive him? ... 1 2 3 4 5 Friendship, Love, Relationships 29 8455 flavie 2005-9-21 11:12:50
  Jackiesuu. There are a lot of things I can’t see from where I am, but I got a feeling that he migh ...
another school shooting in the US ... 1 2 3 4 5 Friendship, Love, Relationships 31 9134 selrahc 2005-3-28 15:56:53
  If I have to point towards a single largest contributor of problems then I would say it's social str ...
Forbidden Love in China ... 1 2 3 4 5 Friendship, Love, Relationships 28 9628 johnners 2005-4-7 19:31:44
  I never denied the freedom to love. I was in a similar positions myself. And in my earlier posts, ...
Why Women Leave Men? ... 1 2 3 4 5 6 Friendship, Love, Relationships 40 14060 kingleo4ever 2005-3-25 08:59:21
  "money appears to be a major issue in a relationship." ------------------- While it might appear t ...
Forbidden Love in China ... 1 2 3 4 5 Friendship, Love, Relationships 28 9628 johnners 2005-4-7 19:31:44
  There is a big difference between intelligence and wisdom. And what your friends are doing is showi ...
Forbidden Love in China ... 1 2 3 4 5 Friendship, Love, Relationships 28 9628 johnners 2005-4-7 19:31:44
  Why did you even ask the question if you were not going to be receptive to any other opinions? Bein ...
What are the bad habits Western People do what drive Chinese Crazy? ... 1 2 3 Travel 16 8483 punkass 2005-3-26 08:30:48
  Say it with me. "Finger licking". Here in the US, finger licking is an accepted behavior when some ...
Oil Hits New Records on Strong Demand - How much does gasoline cost per gallon/l Friendship, Love, Relationships 3 2753 adventurous 2005-3-23 16:09:20
  It's going for about $2.25 a gallon now here in Ann Arbor, Michigan. Impact on daily life? Not yet ...
Dating ... 1 2 3 Travel 15 6971 louwot70 2005-3-30 03:11:33
  Be honest with her and behave the way you normally do. In an interracial relationship, the hurdles ...
American guy having troubles with Chinese girlfriend ... 1 2 Travel 9 6381 vickyren 2005-3-25 15:27:49
  Wow, that’s seriously messed up. What’s more important? Your self-respect or the need to have se ...
Is it a rude or shy thing? Friendship, Love, Relationships 4 2401 xiphoid 2005-3-21 14:18:56
  then I vote it's the shy thing. Or better yet, the cultural thing. I didn't grow up in china, but ...
gaining confidence in talking with that girl ... 1 2 Friendship, Love, Relationships 11 4159 kingleo4ever 2005-3-28 14:10:19
  Every man has gone through this before, so don’t feel bad. Basically, you need to overcome your ow ...
any suggestions plz? ... 1 2 Friendship, Love, Relationships 7 3226 verycool 2005-3-19 15:03:03
  There are lots of different forms of birth control "pills". Some are taken orally, some are injecti ...
Language barriers Friendship, Love, Relationships 3 2406 peaches 2005-3-19 17:48:10
  Most of the time, I would advise against a relationship on the internet. But in your case… You can ...
Hong Kong people...Arrogant and Ostentatious Friendship, Love, Relationships 6 2593 xiphoid 2005-3-19 12:56:23
  But, let me throw my 2 cents in, just a guess based on my experience with my wife. Look at Hong Ko ...
Is it possible to keep a close relationship with a man without having sex with h Attachments ... 1 2 3 4 5 6 .. 7 Friendship, Love, Relationships 43 16348 eddi22 2005-4-29 13:12:11
  Exactly as what Peaches said. The difference between a good girl and a loose girl is: a good girl ...
Is it possible to keep a close relationship with a man without having sex with h Attachments ... 1 2 3 4 5 6 .. 7 Friendship, Love, Relationships 43 16348 eddi22 2005-4-29 13:12:11
  Oh, how to put it correctly but delicately.... hmmm Ok. Some of you girls don't really understand ...
Why Women Leave Men? ... 1 2 3 4 5 6 Friendship, Love, Relationships 40 14060 kingleo4ever 2005-3-25 08:59:21
  If they were unfaithful, then they didn't do -- (3) make sacrifices for the *unity* of the family. ...
Is it possible to keep a close relationship with a man without having sex with h Attachments ... 1 2 3 4 5 6 .. 7 Friendship, Love, Relationships 43 16348 eddi22 2005-4-29 13:12:11
  What roboman said is quite true. But only for men who are not seriously involved in another relatio ...
Find mainland men for Hong Kong women ... 1 2 3 4 Friendship, Love, Relationships 27 7104 xiaolifeidao 2005-6-16 01:11:38
  The guy stated earlier that the sex ratio was 1.2 boys for every girl. Not, 2:1 ratio. Even that n ...
he chosed to leavewhen she wasin trouble Friendship, Love, Relationships 5 2803 monalisa 2005-3-21 20:56:15
  This is just a random guess. But maybe things got to so bad that the guy just couldn’t take it any ...
Forbidden Love in China ... 1 2 3 4 5 Friendship, Love, Relationships 28 9628 johnners 2005-4-7 19:31:44
  What their parents said isn't without merits, and spoken out of wisdom and pragmatism. Relationshi ...
Is it possible to keep a close relationship with a man without having sex with h Attachments ... 1 2 3 4 5 6 .. 7 Friendship, Love, Relationships 43 16348 eddi22 2005-4-29 13:12:11
  We men are goal oriented. If you just want a friend, then just be friends with us. We can do that. ...
help Friendship, Love, Relationships 5 3247 xiphoid 2005-3-17 14:23:58
  The motto of the picture is: "it's dumb to argue on the internet". Nothing more. It used a somewh ...
help Friendship, Love, Relationships 5 3247 xiphoid 2005-3-17 14:23:58
  Both of your views are coming from different angles. It understandable coming from two different ba ...
Why Women Leave Men? ... 1 2 3 4 5 6 Friendship, Love, Relationships 40 14060 kingleo4ever 2005-3-25 08:59:21
  This thread presents mostly the views from the women’s perspective. Which is very nice. However, ...
dont visit Guangzhou ... 1 2 3 4 Friendship, Love, Relationships 26 8864 urbexer 2005-3-16 14:33:04
  One of my best friends from college is working as an auditor/accountant for the Ernst and Young. Hi ...
Affirmation...everybody needs it.. ... 1 2 3 Friendship, Love, Relationships 16 5645 pinko7 2005-3-16 20:24:58
  I think one of the guys in the band was gay. But so what? Ok, I'm going to generalize by saying ...
What do you think the 28-year-old girl married the 82-year-old Pro.? ... 1 2 3 Travel 17 8679 rainbow_110 2005-3-19 14:29:22
  While most of us fall in love because... love struck us. For us, it's instinctive and natural. But ...
Affirmation...everybody needs it.. ... 1 2 3 Friendship, Love, Relationships 16 5645 pinko7 2005-3-16 20:24:58
  ilunga, bro, that song is "truly, madly, deeply". It so happens to be the love song between my wife ...
I am done....you can thank COGITO ... 1 2 3 4 5 Friendship, Love, Relationships 32 6898 openaccount 2008-12-17 00:56:43
  Man, nobody is asking you to be nice to a troll. But please see that there will always be trolls on ...
random question that popped up in my head ... 1 2 3 Friendship, Love, Relationships 14 5889 fragiledream 2005-3-16 00:23:13
  my wife's a girl from hongkong. She and her friends moved in next door to me at the beginning of my ...
random question that popped up in my head ... 1 2 3 Friendship, Love, Relationships 14 5889 fragiledream 2005-3-16 00:23:13
  You really want to know, fragiledream? Well, fine, what harm is there? <sigh> She was in my orga ...
if girl not very pretty ... 1 2 3 4 5 6 Friendship, Love, Relationships 38 13733 ilunga 2005-3-16 23:19:38
  Call us men shallow if you want to, but it's in our genes. Just like a baby doesn't need to be taug ...
random question that popped up in my head ... 1 2 3 Friendship, Love, Relationships 14 5889 fragiledream 2005-3-16 00:23:13
  Well said fragiledreams. Passion is the instinctual portion of love. It’s what brings a man and w ...
Do you really think sex is good? ... 1 2 3 4 5 6 .. 10 Friendship, Love, Relationships 64 12970 sinfulangel 2005-10-18 19:14:07
  ...<rub my eyes> ...<double take> ...<rub my eyes some more> ...say to myself "I'm actually seeing t ...
The man says, the woman do? Friendship, Love, Relationships 6 2712 selrahc 2005-3-11 02:48:47
  I doubt women make decisions faster than men. My personal observations are they are typically a bit ...
any idea about sexism???? ... 1 2 3 Friendship, Love, Relationships 17 7004 whitedevil 2005-3-11 07:00:46
  In the west, sexism has been largely suppressed in the more recent history, by law or through educat ...
if i should forget her ... 1 2 Friendship, Love, Relationships 13 4622 partygirl8 2005-3-9 16:50:04
  You won’t forget her. But you won’t think of her as often as time goes by. Given enough time, ev ...
If you were me, would you stay with that girl? ... 1 2 3 4 5 6 .. 8 Friendship, Love, Relationships 51 15473 longzhou 2005-3-12 09:48:43
  yes, it's not uncommon to give a gift reciept... but it's only done voluntarily. So I could choose ...
teaching and YOUR CHINA ... 1 2 Friendship, Love, Relationships 7 3420 leeapple 2005-3-8 21:29:21
  right on, ilunga. Hearing stuff like that makes me want to move to china. Life in the fast lane ca ...
is it common to have sex with friends in western countries? ... 1 2 Friendship, Love, Relationships 10 4965 lovejoy 2005-3-9 06:47:36
  I find that idea to be quite repulsive. Your friend is wrong about the west. We do not have sex wi ...
If you were me, would you stay with that girl? ... 1 2 3 4 5 6 .. 8 Friendship, Love, Relationships 51 15473 longzhou 2005-3-12 09:48:43
  that her behavior is unacceptable. Especially since you are her boyfriend, when not just kindness b ...
Foreigners : Do you have a Chinese girlfriend/wife? ... 1 2 Friendship, Love, Relationships 12 5849 longzhou 2005-3-7 08:20:34
  1. Where you are from? I was born in Shanghai, grew up in the US (Lincoln, NE; New Milford, CT, Ann ...
my girlfriend s a singer ... 1 2 3 4 5 6 Friendship, Love, Relationships 35 11761 beijinggirl 2005-4-4 15:59:26
  If you are not happy with your husband, it's better to confront him. Get to the root of the problem ...
Questions about Marriage between Foreigners and Chinese ... 1 2 3 4 Friendship, Love, Relationships 24 12963 nobias 2005-3-7 19:08:13
  lol, she sounds like a real spitfire. Well, my wife was the same way when we first got married as w ...
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