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Are You Willing To Share With Others?

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Many people may have the memory that in their childhood, they were unwilling to share toys or snacks with their buddies.

Recently, I read an article which was about how a mother taught her girl to be tolerate of others’ excellence and to lend a helping hand in study in need. This reminds me of my study in the middle school. The study competition is usually very fierce in middle schools and even in universities. Sometimes, classmates or friends may ask you some questions of some discipline and you happen to know the answer. But giving them the answer may mean they will outscore you in the future test while not giving may ruin your friendship or disobey your heart. So at that time, people may be caught in a dilemma. For me, I believe from the nature, human is egoist. But through education and social constraints, people often make a different decision from the nature. By the way, I think we can say the good deeds to consolidate a friendship may for egoism reasons, evading loneliness or cooperating in career. And in today’s world, information is swelling. People have to master more and more knowledge in various fields. In addition, the update is accelerating. It’s normal that everyone has his knowledge of blind spots. Cooperation and information sharing have become a hot topic. Then are you really willing to share in any case and how we realize the maximized mutual benefits from the sharing? Plus, will you share without reservations or retain something?


Here is another case. In China, with more and more leftover ladies, the “men of good quality” enjoy a good sale and even many women scramble for them. And you must often hear of some news about one’s girlfriend has seduced her boyfriend. So some people are not willing to introduce their partners to friends, especially when having an excellent partner. And some people may be not willing to introduce his or her opposite sex friends to his girlfriend or her boyfriend to avoid various troubles or misunderstandings, or even to keep their secrets.


So what’s your opinion? Are you willing to share with others? Information, resources, friends, etc, maybe it just depends on specific situation.


(Opinions of the writer in this blog don't represent those of China Daily.)


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