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[Dating advice] Changchun Dating Scene [Copy link] 中文

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Post time 2014-5-20 12:58:20 |Display all floors
Ok, I think I have been going about this the wrong way.

I joined a online "dating" site called ChinaLoveCupid (yes dumb name). Unfortuately, I tend to meet women only interested in sex and fun. While I am not adverse against that, it isn;t the "end game" I am looking for. I live in Changchun, so I am not sure what options I have available. I do work with local Chinese who can speak English, but I would rather not date within the my work space. I know I would be discreet, and not sure she will.

Anyway, I could use some advice on maybe finding someone who is more serious. Please don't respond with relax let it happen type responses.... because I am relax. haha

A secondary problem is a lot of women near my age have been screwed over once by an expat who loved them and left them. I am also looking for someone looking to "escape" China. So far is my favorite who told me she loved me after 4 days and she barely spoke any English. Also, I am not against dating anyone from any background.

Thanks

Pike

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Post time 2014-5-20 22:26:32 |Display all floors
I don't follow. so you want to have a serious relationship or just a fling?

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Post time 2014-5-21 07:59:23 |Display all floors
Serious- in Changchun flings are easy. Too easy

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Post time 2014-5-21 11:33:24 |Display all floors
Here's an idea.... relax and let it happen. sound good??

Sorry just had too. I am not one you would want relationship advice from. I know you weren't asking me.
Any how good luck on find your other half to "escape" with. Haver a good day
I am me and that is something you will never be, no matter how hard you try!!

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Post time 2014-5-21 14:32:39 |Display all floors
Cdogg Post time: 2014-5-21 11:33
Here's an idea.... relax and let it happen. sound good??

Sorry just had too. I am not one you would ...

No, not at all, an informed and/ or useful post is hard to come by on this forum

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Post time 2015-1-2 14:26:55 |Display all floors
maybe students' hearts are purer.or what you need is just making friends with girls seriously,they can feel that right?

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Post time 2015-1-2 14:52:01 |Display all floors
This will be interesting to follow  

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