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well, actully, i am a little bit confused about the "platonic relationship".|
from your article, i may say that it refers to so-called "friendship" between a man and a woman. if it is so, i would like to declare that i am one of those who are enjoying the platonic relationship. i do have a very good male friend. i can do whatever i want in fron of him, and i don't have to pretend to be the one i am supposed to be. but i have never, ever, wanted to go any further with him. it's quite natural and comfortable to be with him like this.
but the moive When Herry Met Sally tells me that men and women can never be real friends because sex will always set them apart, that a man is unable to make friend with a woman who he thought attractive because he always wants to make sex with her. i don't know what Americans think about it, for me, i'm standing on the opposite side.
however, from the basic meaning of the "platonic relationship", which refers to the love without sex, i don't think it exists. i always believe sex is the necessary part of love, and it lays great importance between lovers.
ok, as usual, i don't know how to conclude my words.