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Interesting ... :)
Right, I'm back again and reading your replies. I've just put on my thinking cap... hmmm.... |
Relentless: I know what you mean by your view on platonic relationships, as I do have friends of both genders who have spoken of this and the difficulties of masking their emotions. However, I've met men who have 'offered' themselves but when I refused they behaved like a bear with a sore paw. I usually cut them off and stay away.
I didn't mind continuing a friendship, but I'm not given a choice in this sense if I know of their motives that they'll eventually want to get what they want - can't go out with men who can't respect you for who and what I am. As for those who were pretending, they didn't last long either - the body language and the eyes are the windows of the soul. Don't get me wrong, I accept your views. Do you have anything more to add, relentless?
Tsupasat: Good on you for building a friendship first before heading on to romanceville. Your honesty in admitting that it's hard for both the man and the woman to draw the line at times, but you have certainly worked on not tagging any girl along for fun - you are truly a lady's man :).
aloss4words & tekvicious: I go along with your ideas too. We don't always get what we want, do we? I think it's the positive thinking where we seize the day and at least tried our best ...so, if it worked - good, if it doesn't - we move on.
yelson: I don't quite get what you mean? The only bits that I could guess are: men should take more risks in relationships and sleep with several women before he makes a choice, and continue to be calm at the same time? Explain? *confused*
kaminini: Hmmm.... sure, one can have a platonic relationship by not considering further commitments i.e. marriage and cohabiting etc. Your reference to the internet... I'm not sure how you linked this to the youths' chatting on the internet? Are you saying that one who is young need not to take things seriously, hence he/she chats on the net? Explain? *confused*
Nevertheless, it's good to have all your feedback :). Add on, all ye readers out there....