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eTomato, what does your heart tell you to do?
In all fairness, we can only empathise with you to a certain degree (online), and the rest is still up to you. Also, it's better to get both genders' viewpoint instead of only referring this question to all the gentlemen out there...|
Ok, I'm now reading between the lines... seems like there's more to what you are actually saying about this 'girl'... and not as 'shallow' as it appears to be... am I right?
Now, a girl won't feel the way she does if she doesn't harbour some feelings for this ex-boyfriend. I'm saying this because I'd cut the guy off if he's trying to be funny about getting back into my pants again. However, if he's just thinking of making amends and to be friends again without any other expectations, it would be nice to have a friend back, don't you think?
Nevertheless, the main scenario here is that, he's made his bed and is lying on it, and he didn't choose to be with you but with the other woman. 3 years have passed... and la dee dee dah... he's thinking of either rekindling old friendships or have a roll in the hay. I don't know what he's thinking and I'm only guessing. So, it really depends on the girl - as in what she wants to do with this? Everyone ticks differently, you know what I mean?
My question to 'the girl' is that... "Are you still carrying a torch for this man?" Well, if she is, she'd better steer clear - getting into someone's marriage has it's negative repercussions, I'd say. I think let's not blame the bloke, as the ball is still in 'the girl's' court. Again, it really depends on what 'the girl' wants.
Well, state the story in full if you want to know more of what I have to say - deal?
A girl was surprised by a unexpected call from her ex boyfriend that night, which confused her somewhat. They have been not in contact for almost three years. Once she companied him in the hardest time of his life. Now He makes a good living with a family and a son.
Listening to his voice is so painful that her tears almost drop. She do not know what to do. Just chatting with him, or denying to his calls?
Don't you think it is wise for her to know what leads him to think of her again? Only men could understand their congener, So any gentleman here, kind enough to solve the difficult question for the silly girl?