Views: 7759|Replies: 15

Do you see divorce as an option?   [Copy link] 中文

Rank: 4

Post time 2013-9-14 16:03:31 |Display all floors


There are few couples that live completely happily and most have problems like this or that. Some just hang on and work their marriage through, while others go for divorce.

Do you see divorce as an option?

Use magic tools Report

Rank: 3Rank: 3

Post time 2013-9-14 22:17:47 |Display all floors
Its very important to resolve your issues as soon as they raise their ugly heads. If you ignore them and let them hang around for years its no good. Communication is the answer and that has been such a challenge with my Chinese partner, she would rather avoid the issues and pretend they dont exist. I dont know if that is just her as a person or if that is the Chinese way.

Use magic tools Report

Rank: 7Rank: 7Rank: 7

2018 Most Popular Member 2016 Most Popular Member Glod Medal 2015 Most Popular Member 2012's Best Moderator Medal of honor August's Best Contributor 2012 July's Best Contributor 2012 Gold Medal

Post time 2013-9-15 04:48:58 |Display all floors
I dont think I will bother with that lark

Use magic tools Report

Rank: 8Rank: 8

Post time 2013-9-15 05:00:48 |Display all floors
1584austin Post time: 2013-9-15 01:48
I dont think I will bother with that lark

You are in love for 48 years

Use magic tools Report

Rank: 6Rank: 6

2015 Most Popular Member

Post time 2013-9-15 07:45:12 |Display all floors
two heads together should be better than one, if two heads together becomes less than one, then, a divorce is necessary.

Use magic tools Report

Rank: 8Rank: 8

Post time 2013-9-15 13:35:00 |Display all floors
This post was edited by vf84tcat at 2013-9-15 13:36

I have discovered that Chinese wives seem not to like the word: "love" very much. I've heard this is cultural. As a Westerner the concept of love and "I've got your back" are extremely important to a successful, happy marriage. If those feelings are not communicated between spouses then the root reason for marriage - to improve the quality of each other's lives is put in jeopardy.

If spouses don't communicate love and respect for each other divorce is usally imminent.

Use magic tools Report

Rank: 7Rank: 7Rank: 7

2018 Most Popular Member 2016 Most Popular Member Glod Medal 2015 Most Popular Member 2012's Best Moderator Medal of honor August's Best Contributor 2012 July's Best Contributor 2012 Gold Medal

Post time 2013-9-15 14:35:55 |Display all floors
manoj10 Post time: 2013-9-15 05:00
You are in love for 48 years

44 including courting period of 2 yrs

But I did know her from Junior School.

Her elder brother was my mate from about 8 yrs old, that's how I met her

Use magic tools Report

You can't reply post until you log in Log in | register

BACK TO THE TOP
Contact us:Tel: (86)010-84883548, Email: blog@chinadaily.com.cn
Blog announcement:| We reserve the right, and you authorize us, to use content, including words, photos and videos, which you provide to our blog
platform, for non-profit purposes on China Daily media, comprising newspaper, website, iPad and other social media accounts.