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Post time 2012-10-25 10:10:44 |Display all floors
RENREW Post time: 2012-10-25 10:06
Many ways to skin a cat!

you are a cruel and evil and devilish sadist
some day Jiangsu will rule China

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Post time 2012-10-25 10:11:47 |Display all floors
This post was edited by WhiteBear at 2012-10-25 10:12

My way in that case is to focus on work, and work-related relations only.

No trying hard to be friends, or even "penyou".
Friendly "good morning" would never kill me, even toward not liked persons.

I'm smiling person (despite moments, when I'm <beeeeeeeeep> like <beeeeep>).
So I never block others to create (re-create?) friendly relation.

When in work - we don't have to like each other, but it helps.

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Post time 2012-10-25 10:15:24 |Display all floors
lionstar Post time: 2012-10-25 10:10
you are a cruel and evil and devilish sadist

Yeah you are luck not working with me
Twentyfive percent out of nothing is still nothing!

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Post time 2012-10-25 10:18:41 |Display all floors
WhiteBear Post time: 2012-10-25 10:11
My way in that case is to focus on work, and work-related relations only.

No trying hard to be frie ...

nothing to add here! Thats what I meant all the time but you found the right words to create a solid foundation to support a good working climate.
Twentyfive percent out of nothing is still nothing!

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Post time 2012-10-25 12:34:28 |Display all floors
We can not avoid to experiencing such situation in the work.
As whitebear says,work is just work,just keeping the work-relationship is enough.  Non't hope to be friends with such person.

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Post time 2012-10-25 12:44:25 |Display all floors
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Post time 2012-10-25 12:47:57 |Display all floors
i dont' force myself to do something that i don't like to do, it is my way in dealing with such a situation.
you can learn hard from the current job to prepare yourself for a better job, at least the working environment is better than the last one.
so long as you are talented enough and become a core member in your organization, your colleagues whom you didn't like before will show good to you!

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