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This post was edited by superkylin at 2012-3-21 12:47|
Here's my basic thought of marriage:
It is a form that wastes and consumes your rest of life, makes you trying hard to get along and live together with a (initially)stranger of your own species of opposite/or same sex and the only purpose is legalized and organized intercourse and breeding to prolong half and half of your and your partner's DNA, which within several generations would vanish or dim easily, as long as you start giving birth and breeding it is evil circle of life form starts all over again.
My question is, why is that so many people, the married ones, no matter happily married(that i can understand) or miserably married even when they are in a pathetic miserable situation--fighting all day with their husbands, quarreling with their mothers in low, no love, little love making, worry about trifles, worry about baby diapers, would still try everything to persuade those who haven't to join them?
They would still try to prove you the superiority of marriage per se, and ask you to join their club.
All what they talk about during spare time as I overheard can be easily summed up as:
Baby, baby can smile, baby loves to cry, baby clothes, baby learning stuff, baby toys, baby kindergarten, baby school, baby urine, baby ----. Or mother in law, good mother in law, bad mother in law, mother in law who don't allow them take care of baby, mother in law trying to @@@ at them, mother in law being nice, mother in law cooking bad. Or husband, husband being boring, husband has no interest, husband wont drive them to company in morning, husband get lazy, potentional mistress of husband, how to fight mistress and disloyal husband, houseworks, boring houseworks, diry houseworks, housework all lay on your own, spring festival eve go to husband's home, spring festival's eve does not want to go to husband's home, spring festival eve go to both homes in turns....
And take most parents for example, as you witnessed their decades of marriage, in such boredom, lies cheats...
What confidence do they have? And why do some of those people still do that, to persuade you so hard jumping into fire as they did? Is it another way of victime complex psycho?
Or maybe i was wrong, there's one thing important, that marriage brings you blind confidence, it makes a most miserable person having high confidence as soon as he gets married, and get a feeling of belonging, to somewhere somegroup i don't know. Same as heresy clans, or highschool girl sisterhood. Feel so good that he does not need ego, or self indentifying anymore?