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Post time 2012-3-19 21:14:40 |Display all floors
Do you have  constructive suggestions to a couple to keep a good relationship?
when  they are away from each other.{:soso_e101:}

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Trust

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you're being ridiculous!
In me the tiger sniffs the rose.

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Post time 2012-3-19 23:10:35 |Display all floors
give each other space, do not live in each others pockets.

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Just don't be calculative like waiting for the other person to contact first. Love is about trust.
9/11 was an outside job

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Make sure you both using condoms.

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Post time 2012-3-20 10:26:54 |Display all floors
This post was edited by DSseeing at 2012-3-20 10:27

It's all about the satisfactions you both have in the relationship.

there's a format in the Psychology:

Satisfaction = outcome - (CL)Comparison Levels

Outcome is the result , the reality.

Comparison levels means the expectations you have from your partner which means the more you feel like you deverve to get from your partner, the higher comparison levels are.

So it's easy to understand that if you had high expectations, but maybe the outcome upsets you. the satisfaction will be low.

There are ways to increase the degree of satisfaction.

Think about what you can do.

Life is what you make of it

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