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Post time 2012-1-15 19:26:48 |Display all floors
i lived in many chinese big cities,such as Shenzhen,Xia men,Shanghai,Beijing,etc.I find a strange phenomenon.Many women more than 30 years old are still single.why?Is america also with the same phenomenon?I am married.So I can't help those single women.But ,i really want know the reason. Who can tell me the reason?
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Post time 2012-1-15 23:58:48 |Display all floors
i was taking to a nice chinese girl only 24 and still cannot find a boy friend i suppose she is just a normal chinese girl and does not look like a film star, chinese men are all chasing the perfect chinese girls and complane about the others leavng to marry westen men,    

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Post time 2012-1-16 02:27:30 |Display all floors
In greece we have this problem as the women are more than the men.
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Post time 2012-1-16 04:36:23 |Display all floors
xilaren Post time: 2012-1-16 02:27
In greece we have this problem as the women are more than the men.

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Post time 2012-1-16 07:33:15 |Display all floors
This seems to be true in a number of societies. In Japan, I think that women in their 30's have the highest proportion of single women on record. I have also heard of a similar phenomena in Korea. I have heard two explanations from other people, I don't know if either are accurate;

(1) Best in the Village vs Best in the World: It used to be the case that women might look for the best guy in the village to marry, but with modern media they know of many rich, powerful and handsome men. So their appetite for local men is reduced. They want the best in the world, not just the best in the village. This effect may also work on men as well!

(2) As women gain more economic power, they still generally look for a man who earns more than them. Obviously there are a limited number of powerful and rich guys, and strong competition from other women. So, there is a reduced number of potential partners acceptable to them.

However, as I am not a woman in my 30's... I cannot be an expert on the correct answer!

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Post time 2012-1-16 09:43:07 |Display all floors
In China once a woman is 27 and single...she's OLD......Chinese men don't want them.......

Good thing there are plenty of Foreign men who think 27 is not Old....Thats why you see so many 50 something Foreigners with Young Chinese woman....
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Post time 2012-1-16 10:01:58 |Display all floors
This post was edited by constellation at 2012-1-18 01:26

I agreed with the fellow above and made a complement to this phenomenon on the unmarried elder women, cause the rhythm of life is very fast in big cities, the elder girls havn't many chances and free time to date the attractive guys, they just be busy in their work all the day long, after one days work, they will go back to their domitories and felt very tired, so havn't other energy to prick up herself to play at the public place like clubs, gyms, pubs and so on becuase thoese place have many chances to date males, this phenomenon cause their vitasphere is so narrow that they feel lonely and lost many chances.
times flash away, they easily became older and older, maybe the big cities easily coincided with boys and girls one nigh stand for their loneliness and desire for love.
I even believe girls not only wants to married a outstanding guy but also married a man for love and be loved. so harsh circumstance to satisfy their demands.
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