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Friday, February 22, 2008|
Another wonderful day yesterday, I was in good mood and good spirit. And I am so glad that day could not turn back to me again.
I did my job and I organized my work. I received a call from him at noon and we chatted for half an hour, again I was disappointed with his talking. I told him that I can’t agree with his mother attitude, and follows his mother viewpoint:
1. His mother said that I am responsible for the half of the housing cost, for this I can’t agree, as in traditional way, buying a house is the responsibility of the boy, not the girl. Why I agreed to pay for the half of the housing is because he can’t pay it himself and I may bear half of this. Her attitude of that disappointed me so much.
2. Her suggestion for the relationship between me and he, and his EX-girlfriend also disappointed, she asked us both waited for him and as her tone, it is like I am asking for him, and he is like a dear thing and I am nobody and so I should chase him and actually I am not, I am in higher education, higher income and higher social situation than him.
3. She said I should be more acceptable for everything about him, as his father accepted her as his wife, because she is in low education and her husband is in good education. His father asked for divorce with her but she bears everything, his ugly words, his bad temper, his insult. So I should be like her that accepts everything as gift. It is a sick thing.
I pointed out to him that I can’t bear his mother viewpoint on me and of course I am not going to accept him any more as the way he treats me like that.
He said I did the wrong thing because I forced him to get her out of his room and so he did, because I gave him the hope and said I will accept him as before after she is out, but I made myself clear I said it is only my plan and it isn’t my love for him. Because he should pay for it, he did the wrong thing to me, but I am pretty sure that his ex-girlfriend or he will together again I lost interest in contact with him any more.
Although I am lose in the so-called love and marriage, but I am still myself.
I have a meeting with Mrs Tang after the call, in the meeting she talked about the same thing and the meaningless announcement. I hate this so much and I hate that kind of meeting. I kept silence for the most of the time and I did pay any attention to it. I forgot the content of the meeting after that.
I noticed that another export sales kept silence too, her sales isn’t good and she didn’t get much sales for the half of the year, I knew she dear not say out anything because her bad sales. Or maybe something else, as she may hiding something as secret, and I should really take care of that.
The sales department went to dinner at night and we met other department in the same restaurant too, we have a great time at the dinner and I did enjoy it.
After the dinner I received three calls from different friends, and after that I fell into sleep till this morning.