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Marriage, as a kind of existence status, is different with single living. is also a kind of all-round social cooperation, in love, in body, in children, in economy, in social relationship, in safety sense, it ultimately targets for happy life. The happiness may have nothing with material life, but is absolutely related to your mind.|
There are two most important factors for happy life, the joyment in feeling,the safety sense. Since marriage is all-round cooperation, it’s impossible for you to gain in every way,it’s not all happiness in marriage, you shouldn’t have too high expectation for marriage. Maybe you have some unhappy things in marriage, but if you have change views, look marriage as social cooperation, as long as you’ll happier in marriage than you’re single, the the cooperation should be maintained. If not,it’s time for you to give up marriage.
Many people think they’re hurt by spouse in marriage. The truth should be one rely on the other mentally too much, happy or unhappy subject to the spouse. The human being is born lonely, even if you have parents,friends,partner,spouse,lover,the loneliness always goes with you. No matter some people once acompany you in your life, no one can acompany you all the life, no one really always understand you. The loneliness never disappear. So nobody,nothing would be all-thing in your life, including the marriage, your lover. Your life is just yours, just happy. No one give you happiness,except yourself.