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As a Chinese man currently dating a "white" girl, I do not feel anything special as "each" mentioned in her experience as a white girl dating a Chinese man in the same town where we both live.|
First of all, I do not see my "white" girlfriend as a "trophy".
She makes more money that me. She works harder than me. She drives a USD $80,000.00 Lexus Sedan. She lives by herself on the lake.
She is intelligent, articulate, hard-working, ambitous and kind woman.
The ritual is the same as dating a Chinese girl. I paid 100% of all the expenses, like hotel, meals, etc.
Is there difference between dating "white" girl and Chinese girls ?
Absolutely, I do not want to say this, but certainly my girlfriend is very sexually active, she is a professional but enjoy very intimate moments with me. We spent a lote of times together watching movies and she teaches me everything about dentistry. I teach her everything about medicine.
She is very open minded for new experience. She is not shy to give oral sex, and even anal sex (but I probably would not want to ask for that).
I even may ask her to stop giving me oral sex because I love her and love is more than "oral sex". It is sharing precious time together watching COLD MOUNTAIN, MILLION DOLLAR BABY, A 40 YEAR OLD MAN VIRGIN, etc.
She has very tough work schedule. She works six days a week , three days from 9:00 a.m. until 9 p.m. and two days she starts around noon. Life is not easy to date a "white" professional woman. She works very hard, makes a lot of money and enjoy fine things in life but also a "loving and giving" person. SHe works almosts 4:00 p.m. on Saturdays !!
I am not saying I prefer "white girl". When we left the movie theatre, not one single person cares to look at an interracial couple. (it is a norm in N. America not an exception).
We are going to spend time together,eating together, sharing our Kodak moments and playing under the sheet and going to sleep together but we have to get up at 6:45 a.m. Monday so we can eat breakfast together and she drives her Lexus to work !
Can a relationship between a Chinese man and an "upper" class white woman work ? I don't know but I am working very hard to make this relationship works !
By the way, we discuss many issues and we even try many new sexual techniques and may be into another dimension but I just have to wait and see how the relationship goes.
I hope more Chinese man comes forward to share their experience with dating white girl.
She does have a very strong feeling marrying her own race, the same ethnicity and speaks the same language because she brings this subject up many, many times that WE CAN NOT GET MARRY because if her parents spend time with her. They talk in their native tone and I could not understand and so I am not a candidate for marriage but OK for dating.
So please help me? Is this relationship able to survive with different cultural background, language, native tongue ? I really don't know !!