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Dear Mikeforan, these kind of problems are not unique just to Chinese women!
Thank you to come forward to share the story with us !|
But this is absolutely not unique just to a Chinese woman from the South !
I have seen so many American women, addicted to "spending money" going to shopping mall, stealing husband's identity to open many credit cards and go to country music bar to dance (Not many disc nowadays in America, I hardly can find one !)
Gambling again is not unique just to the Chinese. My research indicates many older N. American women are addicted to gambling and hide from their husband and I even personally know an American woman will make love to her "American" husband and dip into his pocket and get him drunk and give him sleeping pill and then go to the casino to gamble all night and come home around 5 a.m. and go back to sleep and then cook breakfast for her American husband. (She only love to play stupid slot machine, and she admits losing moe than winning. It is the thrill of getting away for freedom and the aroma of the casino and the sound of winning the jackpot that attracts her !)
She then go back to sleep until her husband come home around 5 p.m.
It was in the news almosts 1 year ago and to my surprise the marriage survives because she goes for counselling.
DR. CHARLES's ADVICE IS NOT TO DIVORCE HER,
1. Many young girls are seeking freedom, money and western culture and glamour, give her a chance to adapt to the fast life style in England.
2. Restrict all her spending and seek counselling, marriage counselling
3. Try not to work all the times, spend some times together and go to Church
4. She will slow down as time passes by !
5. Can some one quit gambling, going to disc ? Absolutely but with determination and no resource to get money to gamble !
6. Indeed, I agree too many Chinese women gamble in N.America but same as American women, older American women too !
7. Give her a chance and spend some times away as mini-honeymoon to find your lost love. Everyone can change, Chinese women can be sweat but can also be a bitch and a witch !
Good luck !
Dr. Charles (Harvard University, 1991, USA)